Post # 1
This is kind of a few polls at once – so make sure you’re picking multiple options!!
I’m usually too tired at night to want it, so I want it in the mornings. I once read that guys have higher testosterone levels in the morning, but FI must not be one of those guys b/c he only ever wants it at night. We NEVER do it in the mornings. Like, ever. Maybe once in a blue moon, but really more like never.
Just curious if anyone else is like this and how they try to make sure it doesn’t effect the relationship.
Post # 3
During the week I’m out the door by 5:30am to go to the gym, so I think my husband would kill me if I suggested morning sex before I go! We’re definitely night people. Sometimes on weekends, the morning gets a go, but not as often.
Post # 4
You forgot a poll option: “Sex? Yes, please.”
DH and I both like sex whenever. We normally do it at night because that’s when we have time, but on free weekends, any hour of the day is possible!
Post # 5
Hmmm you should have made an option for “We like both/we do both.” Weekdays it is usually at night because we wake up at different times – he gets up 2 hours earlier than I do. Occasionally if I wake up at the same time we’ll do it in the morning during the week. On weekends, though, we’ll typically do it when we wake up AND at night, or maybe in the morning one day and at night the next day…sometimes in the middle of the afternoon, as well. We’re all over the place!
Post # 6
We really just like sex whenever and where ever! If the occasion is good, then we go for it hehe
Post # 7
I like sex anytime but especially morning sex because it’s just a nice way to wake up – morning sex usually happens if one or both of us is too tired for sex the night before. DH definitely prefers night and doesn’t really respond sexually until we get ready to go to bed. I can make him hard all I want but he won’t go for it til bedtime. Every once in a while he wants afternoon sex as well as morning or night sex.
It always kind of confused me that he would resist me during daytime until yesterday when I was blowing him and asked him why I couldn’t keep going, cause he was pretty close to climax. he said “I want to save it for later!” – I think he just likes to have a big finale to end his days lol. And he likes to keep it to one a day or he starts complaining about a sore penis.
Post # 8
Here’s how I voted:
I like morning sex.
I like night sex.
SO (FI) likes morning sex.
SO (FI) likes night sex.
We do it in the morning b/c that’s when we like it.
We do it at night b/c that’s when we like it.
My SO (FI) and I “match” when we like it.
Now, if you had only added options for:
We both also like sex in the afternoon and do it whenever we have the opportunity.
We’re total sex fiends for each other at all times.
We make time for sex at every available opportunity – because we’re sex fiends at all times.
We’re equally matched in our sex drives.
I would have voted for those, too.
Post # 9
We do it whenever we get the urge. Morning, afternoon, evening, middle of the night, it’s all game for us.
I would say that our most common time for it is evenings since we don’t actually live together yet, (I move in sept 1, so 2 days to go.). Whenever we have sleepovers though we’ve both woken the other up middle of the night because we woke up horny, thats always fun as long as you don’t work in the morning!
ETA: As far as we are concerned there’s always at least 10 minutes for a quickie, no matter where we need to be. We will probably make sure to get in some lovin between our ceremony and reception.
Post # 10
I prefer night. My husband prefers any time. We usually do it at night, because that’s when there is more time.
Post # 11
Physically I have a better time in the morning… I think I’ve read there’s a testosterone peak for men AND women in the morning? But it’s low on the romance factor that’s for sure.
Post # 12
We’re both night people. Which works out well becuase timing wise, that’s usually when we have the most time too.
Honestly, if DH trying to wake me up in the morning for sex, I’d probably turn him down and roll over and go back to sleep. I hate waking up and am not a happy person in the mornings.
Post # 13
Neither, I prefer afternoon sex! I’m too tired both in the morning and at night. My FI will do it whenever he can!
Post # 14
I love morning sex, but SO and I usually are too busy hitting the snooze button to actually do it.gee take advantage of it on weekends though. We are also big fans of afternoon or early evening sex too!
Post # 15
My word, that’s a lot of poll choices! haha
I chose both. 🙂
Post # 16
@futuremrsk18: Thanks for adding another option to the poll – I just now noticed it! 🙂