Most irrational thing you've done/said during a fight with SO?

posted 3 years ago in Emotional
  • poll: Most irrational thing you've ever said or done to your partner?
    Screamed : (120 votes)
    32 %
    Swore : (130 votes)
    35 %
    broke something : (37 votes)
    10 %
    Hit or got physical in some way : (49 votes)
    13 %
    Other (explain if you want to) : (37 votes)
    10 %
  • Post # 4
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    2884 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: March 2013

    screamed and cried hysterically. it wasnt even a major argument, but the first 3 months of pregnancy i was pretty unstable…felt like a lunatic most of the time

    Post # 5
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    1892 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: May 2013

    a few year ago, right when we were just newly living together, and before i started taking meds for my anger issues, i came home from working a 12 hour day and driving a total of 2 hours.. so a 14 hr day.. I walked into the kitchen and hes just sitting in the living room watching tv… and i just lost it… like saw red for NO reason.. I ended up flipping out on him for god only knows and threw a half gallon of milk across the kitchen… After all this happening.. and me honestly not remembering throwing the milk.. i decided to see a DR.

    Post # 6
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    4072 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: January 2014

    We’ve had arguments, but nothing has ever been super heated. It’s more like discussion.

    But the only time we’ve had a true fight I said he was being a jackass. Then he took the coat he was holding and threw it down on the floor in anger. I stomped out of the room and started washing dishes (I clean when I’m upset). About two minutes later he came in and hugged me and we got over it.

    I actually can’t even recall what that fight was about.

    So I voted swearing since I told him he was acting like a jackass. I’m sorry I said it, but it’s not like I ever dwelled on it.

    Post # 7
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    2878 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: August 2013

    I’ve definitely screamed, definitely sworn (we cuss a lot lol) but the worst was when we got in a big fight shortly before the wedding an d I just left and slept at my neighbor’s house.  I needed to get away from the situation, but I probably should have slept on the couch or something, not left entirely. 

    Post # 8
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    5207 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: February 2013

    @BearyLovely:  I made him walk home drunk in the middle of the night 5 miles in the rain. I don’t regret it. He apologized profusely for being a jerk (this was in his younger days when he drank too much) and he didn’t get even a little bit angry at me. If I were him I would have kicked my ass to the curb but instead he decided to marry me!

    Post # 9
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    1148 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: June 2011

    I dumped all the booze down the drain once. Granted it was only like four liquor bottles and a 12-pack of beer, but what a waste of money looking back! I don’t even really remember what we were fighting about, but I’m guessing it was probably alcohol related.

    Otherwise I just swear a lot or say mean things that I know are hurtful, but makes me feel better for about five seconds before I burst into tears for being such a bitch.

    Post # 13
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    4513 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: October 2013

    I’m pretty good at holding my tongue and not saying things that I will regret/don’t mean. I’ve never called him a name or sworn at him and he hasn’t to me either. I grew up with parents that had brutal fights and constantly called each other every name in the book, threw divorce around, and said they hated each other. I make sure not to make those mistakes.

    When I am really mad I will throw things though 😛 Stay out of my way

    Post # 14
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    9412 posts
    Buzzing Beekeeper

    I have a feeling this thread will be full of, “oh gosh, we never do that. We are always respectful, we never swear, we never disgaree, and we just TALK about things calmly and then cuddle.”

    I can’t imagine a relationship where nothing ever gets passionate or heated. I guess I must be the one living in a dream world 😛

    Post # 15
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    1234 posts
    Bumble bee

    I don’t yell because he points out to me when I’m getting loud, but I’ve sworn (not directly at him, I don’t think). The worst I’ve done is burst out in tears (I do that when I’m SUPER angery) and then he felt like a total dick for making me cry.

    Post # 16
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    1343 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: October 2013

    oh man… this is so embarassing… 

    But I was upset that day for whatever reason (probably from my psycho father) and was just in a really bad mood. My FH was doing something while I was cleaning, like playing a video game or reading a comic book. Anyway, I got upset he wasn’t helping. So I go upstairs to clean our bedroom, which he was supposed to have done yesterday, and didn’t. So I make a passive aggressive remark like “btw, thanks for cleaning the bedroom” as I’m walking by. He follows me upstairs and says, what do you mean, I dusted…

    I don’t even know. I saw red. Because I knew that if he did clean it, it was the worst job ever or he was just flat up lying about it. I YELLED at him that he was f**n crazy. I then swipped my finger over the t.v. getting dust on my finger and put it on his nose… asking him if it looked clean to him? 

     

    I feel so bad about it… I have never done that, or ever put my hands on him. I didn’t hit him, just covered the poor guy’s nose in dust… If he had done that to me I don’t even know what I would have done. 🙁 In my defense, I did just start a new BC that was making me feel insane, but no excuse. 

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