(Closed) Mother ~ daughter dance….wierd or special!?!?!?!

posted 8 years ago in Music
Post # 3
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1940 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

Hmmm.  I’m not too familiar with mother/ daughter dances.  Would you ask your mom ahead of time or just during your speech?  Maybe it depends on your mom – my mom would probably find it a bit awkward/ uncomfortable.  Also, you may want to let your stepdad know you aren’t doing a father/daughter dance ahead of time.  As he is walking you down the aisle, he may expect to do a father/daughter dance as well.

 

Maybe there are other bees out there more familiar with this…

Post # 4
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2186 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

i was actually thinking of having a mother daughter dance myself since my father is really religous and conservative and DOES NOT DANCE at all. but my mother LOVES to dance.

dunno how it will go over though. interested to see what folks think?

Post # 5
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1426 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 1969

I think it would be totally fine and very nice, but I would make sure you talk it over with your mom first (from your post it sort of sounded like you wanted to surprise her, I’m not sure if I’m reading that right though).  She may not be comfortable with it, or she may love the idea but want to practice first, but if you spring it on her at the wedding with no warning, it sort of puts her on the spot, you know?  I would also keep the speech part short unless your FI is making a parallel speech about his mom.  But overall I think it is a good idea.

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