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This is a vent also so please bear with me and I will give you a little background. To put it nicely, I can't stand my in-laws, mainly my mother in law. I find her to be a fake, phoney, schrew (we have 0 in common so when we do talk, it's about the weather) and I don't trust her super sweetness, never have. I know she is a 2-face as she has bashed her own mother in law for the past 85 years, while going in with the OVERKILL, calling her MOM, being not just cordial but sickenly sweet, you would think she LOVED her. I am civil, polite and respectful when I HAVE to see her. Otherwise, I don't go out of my way to spend time with them, we don't talk on the phone and he goes to visit without me sometimes, he should that's his parents. I haven't seen them in months thank god. I think the fact that I am not seeking her approval irritates her even more. There have been many instances where she was rude to either me or people connected to me, for example, her and her husband not even ACKNOWLEDING or saying hello to my bridal party as they waited outside our church for the rehearsal dinner or rolling her eyes IN FRONT OF ME, when my own mother has called her son's phone (she couldn't get a hold of me and it was urgent) All along though my husband will say "oh she's has been trying to get close to you for years". Uhuh.  Or the once over she gives me, the look over from head to toe, EVERYTIME I see her, the look thar imo jealous women give you when they are comparing you to themselves.

So, our wedding photos came in which included getting 2 parent albums. We decided to let both families choose what photos they want in the album even though techincally we could have just chosen the pictures and made 2 duplicate albums. Each side of the family also gets 1 enlargement, like an 8x10 or something included in the price. So my husband came home with the pictures, her pictures were put in an envelope seperately, why I don't know, since my family and my husband and I are supposed to be able to choose from ALL of the pictures. So I called my family up and told them to take those pictures out and mix them in with the other ones and they could choose them if they like as well. His mom marked on the back of the proofs which ones she liked anyway. So I ask my husband what picture his mom chose for the enlargement. She chose 2, one of her and her husband, because it was their day after all lol and a second of JUST HER, HER HUSBAND and MY HUSBAND. Hmm..how nice. No enlargement of the married couple? And again, this is coming from someone who just LOVES me lol. I am almost certain that this was done totally on pupose. His mother is a little passive aggrassive schrew who likes to play games. And in the past, I will play right back. So I questioned my husband about this. Then the story changed, now it was they wanted those pictures on top of everything else and they were paying extra for those. So ok, still where was the 8x10 of US she chose? I was already stressed out and in a bad mood over work and this sent me a little over the edge. Of course we got in a fight about it. My family agreed, saying of couse his parents should choose a picture of the COUPLE but it is HER house and she can display or do whatever she wants to do and maybe she didn't do it on purpose. WHICH IS TRUE! So I made my husband call his house and put her on the spot asking WHAT PICTURE of both of US does she want blown up. Of course she said we could choose from the pile she had chosen, which consists of like 25 pictures. He called her back again saying we did not have time to go through 25 pictures so which one was it, now it was "oh I didn't know I was allowed an enlargement"..Huh?

So would you be devilish about this, give her ONLY an enlargement of you and your husband (forget to order hers)lol? Advice? Either way, She's GETTING an enlargement of both of us, and if she has to pay extra, oh well. I know I should just be NICE about this though..