Post # 1
So my FMIL have never seen eye to eye, my BF and I met when we were young and 4 years later she just seems to get worst, she’s a very controlling person and does anything she can to strain our relationship she will do it in very sneaky ways also so that my BF will not always realise, anyway i just wanted any advice or I would love to hear people’s story’s to know I’m not alone ! And anyone who has every resolved things with there MIL thanks bees !!!
Post # 3
Honestly, all you can do is grin and bear it. If it gets really bad, bring it up to your BF in polite, calm ways (not accusatory with “your mother did/said…”). Hopefully she will realize that she’s only going to end up hurting herself and her relationship with you and her son, and will change her behavior. Good luck!
Post # 4
I’m not on the best of terms with my FMIL to put it mildly. However, my FI understands why I feel the way I do, and we’ve simply started to spend less time with his parents. It’s sad in the way that FFIL is the sweetest man on earth, but it’s just not bearable to spend time with that woman. We’ve solved it in the way that FI and FFIL hangs out together, it doesn’t solve it altogether but it makes it a little easier to handle.
Post # 5
she just doesn so many things to spite me and i thought it would get better over time but it only get worst and my fear is one day when we start a family she will miss out because shes acted to poorly, i try to make things better between us but now i have just started to give up !