Mother of the Bride Help!!!!

posted 3 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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1167 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

@clc42:  You’re doing what your friend asks of you? Keep it at that. And if MOB comes at you again, you just tell her the MOH is the brides support, you are there to support her in any way the bride deems fit. Also, just tell her bride asked you to come, asked you for your help, and you are just being supportive by doing so.

MOB sounds a little nuts. Maybe she is one of those mothers who has always dreamt of her daughters wedding and doesn’t want you there so she can sway her daughter the way that SHE wants to. Thats what I would assume anyway. The parental-child influence is totally unfair and she will use it if bride has no one around to back her up.

To be honest if this was happening to be or my best friend (both brides, both in bridal parties) we would talk to eachother. But I don’t know the nature of your relationship and wether or not thats a viable option for you 🙂

Post # 4
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441 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 2013 - Garden

Are you a non-confrontational person? If it happens again I would ask why she has this opinion of you and put her in the right. If my mum did that to my MOH I’d tell her to pull her head in.

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