(Closed) Mother off her rocker

posted 5 years ago in Family
Post # 3
Member
116 posts
Blushing bee

Are you her only daughter or the first to get married? If so she might have a “vision” on what she is suppose to do as the MOB. I would let her come personally I did all of my girly things with my mom. It created great memories of my wedding.

If she only does it to let other people see what she is doing don’t tell her about it. Just show her afterwards if she asks

Post # 4
Member
8020 posts
Bumble Beekeeper

Personally I think you are being a bit harsh on your mum. Yes it is you and your FI’s wedding but it is kind of a big deal for some parents. I think it is especially harsh to not allow her to come to anything wedding related because she made a really valid point about buying a dress that was too small.

Rather than being passive aggressive about the issues you feel with your mother and using the wedding as a way to kind of punish her for her behaviour why not sit down and talk to your mother about how her behaviour makes you feel. Not in a confrontational way but more in when you do this it makes me feel like way.

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