Mother paying for wedding, p!$$ everyone off??

posted 3 years ago in Paper
Post # 3
7630 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: January 2013

I’m not sure what the problem is…you said they already know. Are they complaining to you? 

Post # 4
1259 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 2014

I am confused too. It doesn’t really seem like it would cause a big issue. If I were in your position, I would focus on the fact that your mother is paying for the wedding. If someone has a problem with that then that’s their issue. You can expalain to your brother(s) (if they even say anything) that since she’s paying for it – she deserves some recognition. Tradition used to be that the bride’s parent’s paid for the wedding. Maybe bring that up to help ease any hard feelings.

Post # 5
6194 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 2013 - The Liberty House

It wouldn’t be you who’s causing anything; they may have a problem with her for paying, not with you for recognizing that she is.

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