Mother vent…I don't speak to her boyfriend…

posted 3 years ago in Family
Post # 3
1613 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

@Daizy914:  I think it may be best you do not speak to her BF. Given her history of jealousy, I can easily see her of accusing you two of doing something “wrong”.

Remind her you offered her to come see you. For the check, if you “have” to cash it I would and then go donate the money to the Salvation Army or a charity maybe?

Post # 5
735 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

She sounds very mentally unstable. I know that it’s your mom and you love her but she appears to be poison for you. Maybe it’s easier for me than other ppl as I myself can be emotionally distant but I’d cut her out of my life. I do this to my poisonous relatives without hesitation. It’s sad that one has to resort to such measures but my sanity and well being is more important than their immaturity.

Post # 7
735 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

I am so sorry that you are going through this.

Post # 8
285 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: December 2013

She asked for the check back? Makes me think she wants the money. I guarantee you the BF doesn’t know she wants it back. That’s probably why she asked if you had cashed it in the first place.

I know she’s your mom and I’m sorry, but she sounds like a very unstable, manipulative person.

Post # 10
173 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

@Daizy914:  Haha, we must have got our mothers from the same aisle of the mom store. I can laugh because I totally feel for you. My mom asked for her cheque back, too! I never thought it would happen to anyone else. FI was like, “We should deposit that.” But we didn’t (because I knew) and sure enough she asked us not to cash it. She said they didn’t have enough money, but then her & her husband bought a little red convertible and a SECOND antique car. FI couldn’t believe that happened.

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