- 6 years ago
- Wedding: July 2012
I’d like to dance with my brother, in lieu of a Father Daughter dance. (our father is deceased). I’ve got a song in mind that’s of special meaning to my family.
The problem is that my fiance and his mom aren’t keen on dancing together. They don’t want to be on display and his mom doesn’t want to have things “drag on” at our wedding with many formal dances, speeches, etc.
So, I guess it’s fine if they don’t want to dance, but is it weird if I go ahead and dance with my brother?
I’m feeling a little self-conscious now and worried that my fiance’s family/guests will find it’s dragging on, and wondering why we bothered with a brother-sister dance, since there was no mother-son dance.
I’m also concerned that it will make the reception feel even more unbalanced….my family is huge, and boisterous…I don’t want my fiance’s smaller, quieter family to feel cast off in the corner…