(Closed) Motivation – I got none

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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12826 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

Take a day off!  No wedding talk, no wedding planning. Just relax and enjoy your FI!  Seriously, have a nice date night, go out and relax, and have a good time.  It sounds like your burnt out and just need some time to recharge your batteries!  Everything will get done, and one day off won’t kill you!  Good luck!

Post # 4
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1064 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

I was a little like that a few weeks before the wedding. So exhausted and still so scared of all that was still left to do..wedding stuff every-single-day can take a toll on your nerves alright! I agree with the advise abbie just gave you. Enjoy a day entirely off-wedding stuff and recharge a little your energies. I know the feeling of really wanting the wedding to be over and jump right into the honeymoon..guess most of us feel like that! It’s the wedding stress!!!!! I promise it WILL get better Laughing and you will have a beautiful day and a relaxing honeymoon. You’re almost there!!

Post # 6
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6745 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: June 2014

I don’t think there’s anything wrong with how you feel!  Just take some time off and maybe see if there are any friends/family/BMs/etc that might be willing to help out with some of the things.  Explain that you’re burnt out, would appreciate help, and would totally understand if they don’t want to do it – because after all, it’s your wedding and even you don’t want to do it!

Also, I think it’s better that you feel this way – imagine if you were freaking out and stressed out about everything??  Ugh, what a nightmare!  At least this way, you don’t care anymore – you just want to get married and go on your honeymoon, what a wonderful feeling!  If something goes “wrong” – who cares?? As long as at the end of the day, you’re married and on your way to your honeymoon, NOTHING has gone wrong. 

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