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posted 4 months ago in January 2012
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    BostonBaby    January 2012   MA

    I'm not sure why, and I'm not sure how, but it's gone, ladies. My motivation. All of it. Those vendor meetings I have to schedule? Yep... eventually. The table names, ceremony list, and all the other signage? Sure, sure, when I get a minute. Seating arrangements and timeline? Mmmmhm.

    HELP?!

    I've always been a follow-through person, and as a writer I'm an obsessive deadline adherent. But for some reason I'm just not able to get my lazy butt moving on the stuff that *needs* to get done, and done NOW. I think partially it's because I'm alone often (FI is a pilot) and I wish he was here to help -- besides, things are so much more fun when he's around :) But that's really my only excuse...

    How are you ladies doing with the final details? Can you help me find my mojo and get me back on track? 

     
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    Evie19    January 21, 2012  

    @BostonBaby:  I just feel exhausted all the time no matter how much sleep I get...so even though I want to get things done, it takes all my energy to muster the strength to get moving...

    I can only imagine the sigh of relief when everything's over. I'm sure I'll enjoy the day, but the days leading up to the wedding lately have been difficult.

    I hope you get your mo-jo back! Maybe taking a complete break from everything for one day will help...?

     
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    Katielee    January 7, 2012   Kannapolis, NC

    I was there two weeks ago myself. Evie19 suggested taking a day off, that is what I did. Well i gave myself a weekend. I told myself I didn't have to do any of it. I let myself just sit and relax. Monday I was ready to go. 

    Also, I know I procrastinate a lot and this was the one time I didn't want to run around chicken like. We just gone running the last errand. Now just a few tiny things to do and I can relax. Well beside do all the flowers Friday when they come in. 

    I hope you find your mojo soon!!

     

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