(Closed) Moving in together

posted 5 years ago in Home
Post # 3
3265 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: February 2014

Is him moving in with you not an option? That way you don’t have to relocate your son either.

Post # 4
1042 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2013

@MochaPrincess:  Honestly, unless you have some sort of moral or religious reason for not moving in together you might as well go ahead and do it. I assume when you marry you will live together, so you may as well get used to it sooner as opposed to after the wedding.

Is there any way you guys could move into your place, or get a new place together at some point in the near future that way you feel more comfortable with the living situation? That way it doesn’t feel like his place, but your shared place.

Post # 6
504 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

Personally, I would get an entirely new place for you guys. You guys are starting a new life together as husband and wife. It would be good to have a home that you can call both of yours and not feel like your moving into his home.

Post # 8
1710 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2013 - Walt Disney World

@MochaPrincess:  Why is it that you don’t like where he lives (other than it being tiny)?  Is he living with other people?  I would renew the lease you have, even though you may have to break it in the future.  It sounds like you will be unhappy living where he is, so the only options really are to renew or find a new place together.  Either way, you will still be spending money, unless you move in with him.  I don’t see why he wouldn’t move in with you…you are getting married now and I don’t see why he can’t help pay for the bills at your current place.  

Post # 9
163 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

1. Your son and your husband to be need to spend sometime together. Frankly you are about to start a new family with your Fiance and your son is your family too.

2. Maybe you can clean his place and decorate it to make it more comfortable for you. Obviously you need to find a way to save money so you can pay for a wedding and buy a house. Also when you get married you will  need to live together so better to live together now and if it doesn’t work you can break it off rather then getting divorced.



Post # 12
1138 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

I think it’s great that you are moving in together before the wedding, to see how you live together and make any adjustments that may be needed. Good luck! 

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