(Closed) Moving in with him, but having cold feet..?

posted 5 years ago in Home
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

Well, I think you’ve got the right idea by talking to him.  I know you said he was supportive of you quitting your job, which is good.  I’d start with asking:

Does he have an expectations of a financial contribution towards the household expenses?  If so, how much? 

How would he feel if you weren’t able to financially contribute for a few months?

Are there other ways that you both would feel comfortable about for you to contribute?  As in cleaning up, cooking dinner, helping out with his job (if he has paperwork that he has to bring home that you can take care of), that sort of thing.

I’m also not sure what you mean when you said he gave you the keys in an unflattering way.  I tossed my fiance the extra key and said ‘oh yeah, you’ll need this’.  There wasn’t anything super romantic or anything.  Mostly because he already had his stuff moved in. 

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