- 8 years ago
Does anybody have advice for how to implement Mr. Bee’s plan in an LDR? My SO and I have been together for a little over a year, and we both recently moved to remote areas, so we’re going to be LDR for the next 2-3 years. He knows that I want to marry him, and he says he thinks about it too but isn’t quite ready yet to make the decision to get engaged. I’m fine with waiting for now, but I’d like to keep the conversations about the future flowing because so many details would have to be figured out if we were to start a life together at some point.
Since I want him to be thinking about the future and commitment without me having to bring it up, I want to try Mr. Bee’s plan. The thing is, we are LDR and rely entirely on email and AOL Instant Messenger to communicate as it is, so I have a really hard time making myself even less available to him. I want to make it clear that I have my own life, etc, without cutting off communication completely.