Mr Right and Mr Right Now……

posted 3 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
195 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

From what you’ve said, Andrew is a rebound Imho.

If i were you, I’d be setting myself free from both and just enjoy being single for a while and letting whatever will be will be.

Youd know the saying that if you love it set it free….etc etc etc

Post # 4
169 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

@victoria1990:  I think you need to be single for awhile until you figure this out. Us bees can give you all sorts of advice, but it really boils down to which guy YOU want. Personally, I would choose Mark. I’ve never been into older guys, though my dad is much older than my mom, so I don’t have anything against it. Follow your heart, but use your head too.

Don’t just choose Andrew because he spoils you, and don’t just choose Mark because he’s closer to your age. Not saying that would be your reasoning for choosing one over the other. I was just making an example. Make sure you truly want to be with whichever guy you choose.

Post # 5
1634 posts
Bumble bee

I think it would be next to impossible to make that decision while in a relationship. I think you should break it off with Andrew and sort out your feelings on your own. I was often out of one relationship and jumped right into another and it wasn’t until I was on my own and allowed myself to feel everything I was feeling that I could finally figure out what I wanted and needed from a partner. You’re young, you have lots of time to figure out what Mr. Right looks like and you don’t need to make a decision right away, take your time and figure out what exactly you want! There’s a reason why you broke it off with Mark, you can’t discredit that decision entirely. 

Post # 6
64 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

You have to do what’s best for you, but there’s a reason that Andrew has been divorced twice. That’s a big ol red flag for me, personally.

Post # 7
1372 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2015


I read once that if you love two people, you should pick the second one because if you really loved the first one, you would never have fallen in love with the second one.

I don’t know everything, and I certainly don’t know where exactly your relationship stands but it sounds like you fell in love again while you were with both of them so maybe neither of them is the real gem you’re looking for?

Worth having a thought over!



Post # 8
52 posts
Worker bee

In my opinion , if you wanted to be with either of the men then you wouldn’t have any doubts .HUGE RED FLAG  ! Imo you don’t have doubts about the one , end it with both and have some time to yourself love alway happens when you least expect it . I live by the quote if its meant to be it will be . Good luck xxxxxx 

Post # 9
1242 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2017

@victoria1990:  Andrew sounds like the perfect… rebound.

Every relationship needs work. No relationship is perfect except in a disney movie… and those get boring after a while anyway.

Post # 10
5987 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: June 2010

@victoria1990:  you obviously dont really love either of these guys.break up with both of them and be with yourself. 

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