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Muscle Cramps while being intimate tmi??

posted 4 months ago in Intimacy
  • poll: What would you do if you got a muscle cramp while being intimate
    Stop : (27 votes)
    45 %
    Keep going : (26 votes)
    43 %
    Other : (7 votes)
    12 %
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    furtureffcaptwife    July 28, 2012   Texas

    Ok...so last night I was "on top" and I got a cramp in my foot.  I toughed it out but it was pretty distracting....anyone else have this happen?  Just wondering how you handled it..did you say something and break the mood or did you just ummmm "work" through it :D

     
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    EmilyJean    December 29, 2012   Kansas

    This made me laugh when I read it because I've had the same thing happen. I stop, tell FI, have him stretch whatever is cramping and move on. The distraction will ruin the whole moment for me so I can't just let it go.

     
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    shooting_star5711    May 18, 2013   Carbondale, IL

    I laughed too - I've had that happen more than once.  I've toughed through it a few times, and other times, I've told him and we usually move positions. Cramps don't usually stop him lol

     
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    Juliepants    June 2, 2012   Ontario

    "Ahhhhh, move over, leg cramp, leg cramp, ahhhhh!"

    Not the most romantic way to go, but those things can HURT!  :P

     
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    Beccka    September 1, 2010  

    Stop stop stop.

    What the hell is the point keeping going if one of you has gone into cramp? It isn't the Tough Man 2012 you're competing in, it's supposed to be fun!

     
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    BerryBerry    December 20, 2012   Australia

    I chose Other cos I don't just completely stop and I don't tough it out.

    We'll just stop, change positions or just wiggle your foot/arm/leg around for 20 seconds until it'a gone, then resume!

    Most of the time we don't, um, 'disconnect' whilst un-cramping, and I always cramp in my leg. Stupid leg...

     
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    MrsBlueSeptember    September 30, 2012  

    I get leg cramps at times.  I stop for a second and reposition.

     
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    JessieK    December 31, 2015  

    @Juliepants:  <<- THIS! I get them ALL the time, it happens, it's not sexy, but not a "end game"

     
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    nineteen87    March 19, 2015   Bay Area CA, US

    Let him know and change positions. 

     
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    emilymeemee    September 28, 2013   San Francisco

    Hilarious, this has happened to both of us, but not at the same time! We just tell each other and stop, and wait til the cramp goes away and start again. :)

     
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    Eva Peron    November 2011  

    Drink up on gatorade daily ;) Eat potassium rich foods too!

    A lot of it comes from the tension while building up the orgasim and also the general exertion +

     odd positions that your muscles aren't used to sustainig you on. It will pass!

     
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    theredhead    January 4, 2014   Orlando, Florida

    I've never had this happen but my FI got a huge charlie horse one time and fell over in pain... it was hilarious! we both laughed so hard that it totally killed the moment. Usually if he gets one we just change positions and keep going! 

     
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    bsbee    July 6, 2013  

    This has happened and I just say "ow cramp cramp cramp" haha and then once its gone we keep going lol.

     
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    TankGirl    September 22, 2012  

    I hate when that happens! We usually just take a break and laugh about it, but I guess we're not that big on mood. He sometimes gets a butt muscle cramp while on top, too. We're just smooth like that.

     
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    AirForceWife78    October 19, 2013   Live in Colorado Springs, CO. Wedding in Madera, CA

    Happens to me ALL the time. I just pretend like I'm screaming in ecstacy lol

     
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    sunnywoods    October 5, 2012  

    Lol this happens to me even when I'm not on top depending on what I did at the gym that day. Usually I just modify the position so I can strech it while continues. Now I do sometimes get lower abs cramps after I finish and those r a bitch.

     

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