- 5 years ago
Well….. where do i start? I don’t have much family at all. My mom is a hardcore alcoholic. It was real bad when she ran out of alcohol she would drink listerine and nyquil. and she’s not a happy drunk. she’s real mean. We didn’t speak for about 5 years because she would call me up cuss me out and tell me how much i ruined her life, then she would call and my 5 year old would answer and she’d call him a “littel mf’r”. My bio dad I don’t even really know (he’s also an alcoholic and drug user). my step dad hasn’t spoke to me since my mom and him split 12 years ago. My moms family outed me (along with her) when she got drunk and slept with my cousin’s sons father about 8 or so years ago. So here I am, planning this wedding with about 5 family members showing up. On holidays I sit at home by myself, no where to go (fiance usually works holidays). My current problem is that my mom is living with this guy and i’ve stashed some wedding stuff over there (chair covers, sashes, runners, etc…).. well anyways, the guys she’s living with called me up this morning asking me if i seen her because last night she got drunk, tore up his house, assaulted him, and left at midnight. This is her MO. She’s done this before and why I no longer have anything of mine (pictures, toys, etc) before the age of 20. She moves from dude to dude and leaves things behind for them to (i’m assuming) throw out. Well. I got a hold of her and told her that she’s not welcome or invited to the wedding. Now I need to go pick up all my wedding stuff and figure it out.