My baby boy is now an angel

posted 3 years ago in Babies
Post # 2
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378 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

I have no words. I cried the entire time reading your story and cannot even begin to imagine the heartache. I hope you find others to relate to and gain support from. My heart breaks for you and your husband.

Post # 3
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9137 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 2013 - St. Augustine Beach, FL

LAZB:  Sorry isn’t enough to heal the wound of losing a child.  He will always be your son and he will always live in your memory.  I’m glad you are putitng this out here and trying to grieve and heal from your tragic situation.

I highly suggest seeing a grief counselor or attending a grief support group at least for a little while.  While it won’t make all of the pain go away, it will put you in contact with other people in your situation and hopefully give you some closure.  You did everything 100% right in the situation so do not think for a second anything you did caused your son’s illness.

Here’s a great resource for infant loss: http://www.babylosscomfort.com/grief-resources/

Post # 4
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2419 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2015

I wish there were words I could say that could take the pain away that you are experiencing. I am so terribly sorry for you and your husband’s loss. Sending virtual hugs and many prayers your way.

Post # 5
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7654 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2012

I cannot tell you how very sorry I am for your loss. This made my heart break for you and your DH. Again, I am so sorry.

Post # 6
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1259 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 2014

 

LAZB:  You poor thing. I am so so so sorry this has happened to you 🙁 I know there is nothing anyone can say to take the pain away 🙁 I hope you find some sort of peace in this.

Post # 7
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8680 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2014

I’m so sorry. I lost my daughter at 9 months, much like you, in my arms after she was taken off life support. I know the pain you feel, and I know that there aren’t any words that I can say to take the pain away. What I can say is that for 5 weeks you were a great mother, and you were at least able to meet your son, if only for a short while.

Post # 8
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2063 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: February 2014

you are so incredibly strong for sharing your story. i am so sorry you and your loved ones are going through this – no mother should ever have to. i can’t relate but i hope you find resources and people who can help you heal. he is absolutely an angel now and i hope he brings you peace. so sorry for your loss. xo.

Post # 9
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1926 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

My heart is breaking for you. I don’t even know what else to say. God bless and I am so sorry.

Post # 10
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567 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

LAZB:  I can’t seem to find the right words, I guess there is probably no such thing. I am just so very sorry for your loss. Sending my condolences to you and your DH.

Post # 11
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6872 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: March 2014 - A castle!

I’m so sorry 🙁 I just wanted to offer support and admiration of your strength. ((HUGS))

Post # 12
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3557 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2014

I don’t have any words that wouldn’t sound trite. You are brave to share your loss with us and I hope in time that your grief will lessen so that you can focus more on the happy moments you had with your son. Pp had good advice in suggesting a grief counselor for you and your husband. I wish you well on your healing journey.

Post # 13
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2657 posts
Sugar bee

I am a loss for words, as I can’t imagine the pain you must be going through right now.  My deepest condolences to you and your family. 

Post # 14
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3016 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2014 - Prague

I’m so so sorry for your loss. THank you for starting this thread. My dear friend lost her son — he was born very premature and held on for nearly a month but in the end did not make it. I know she thinks about him every day and her pain is immeasurable.  

One of the hardest parts for her has been how there is no place/way to talk about this. It’s such a huge part of her daily life, but other people simply don’t know how to talk about it, or when, or what’s ok. No one wants to upset her, of course. It all comes from people’s sensitivity, but for her it just adds to her pain. It’s another way her son has been lost.

So while I know there’s nothing that can ease the pain you will bear, I do hope you find an outlet and a caring place– maybe here?– to talk about your son.

Post # 15
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1033 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

LAZB:  I am incredibly sorry for your loss.  My heart aches for you and my prayers are with you and your husband.  Thank you for being so brave and sharing your story.  

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