- 7 years ago
- Wedding: January 1991
Today was my bacheloretty party, and my girls did a great job of doing exactly what I wanted! Really, it was great! Except, there were a few girls invited that weren’t a part of the bridal party, and only one was able to make it.
Well, this girl got all confused about times/directions, and got there a little late, which was totally fine. What wasn’t totally fine was when she walked in, she had her FI with her!! He had driven her to the party (at my sister’s apartment) and she basically just said, “oh, well he had to do homework, and I was too tired to drive over myself, so he’ll just stay in the kitchen and hang out.” Um…. ok, cause I really wanted your FI to come along to my bacheloretty party…
Ugh… I tried to not let it bug me, but honestly, I was so bummed that he tagged along! I really didn’t ask for much for my bachelorette party, except for a relaxing day out, and a lingerie party. I knew my girls were getting me some… fun… stuff and it was SO awkward to have this guy that I barely know sitting down the hall the whole time. He wasn’t present or anything (I would have raised a stink about that), but it was just the fact he was there, and it was a girls only event.
THEN… their car died, which obviously they couldn’t help. But, I ended up driving them back to their house an hour and a half away, then back home tonight. It just wasn’t how I expected to spend my evening at all and I was already kinda pissed off at them for him coming along.
So, it honestly wasn’t a huge deal… it certainly could have been way, way worse, but I just felt like they weren’t really considerate and I am just a little bummed at how things ended up turning out. Plus, FI is living up his bach weekend at the beach with the guys ALL weekend…. so part of me is a little jealous at how much fun he is having too. 🙁 I just needed to vent…