My best friend is mad at me ; ( need Advice please ( kinda long )

posted 3 years ago in Emotional
Post # 4
2174 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2017

OK.  I don’t have any major life-altering advice.  But here’s my shot.

I’m assuming she’s single.  So she probably feels like she’s being left behind as you get married, and that can be rough for people who have a close relationship.  I imagine it’s really tough if you’re “expected” to have been married by now as well.  (You said you’re 40, I’m guessing she’s close to that.)

She might be mad at you for her get-together because you said you probably weren’t going to be able to make it, and that’s different than straight up no.  Plus it sounds like she didn’t know that you had to watch the kids and still thought you could possibly show up.  If this happens again, I would confirm with her that no, you will not be attending, so she can plan accordingly.

Try to set aside some time to spend with just her.  Don’t cancel on her unless it’s an emergency.

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