(Closed) my best friend/ moh’s fi’s bday on our wedding day…

posted 8 years ago in Reception
Post # 3
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

That is such an incredibly sweet idea. I love giant cupcakes! Although guys tend to care less about celebrating their birthdays I think it’s great that you’re acknowledging his birthday.

My best friend’s bday is a few days after our wedding so I’m making sure to do something special for her when everyone is together.

Post # 4
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: December 2010 - University of Toronto Faculty Club

I think that’s lovely and they’ll really appreciate the gesture.

Post # 5
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

Thats really kind of you! My MOH is my sister, and her bf’s birthday is also our wedding day…I wasn’t going to do anything special, but maybe I’ll ask the DJ to make an announcement, hehe, and we can all sing Happy Birthday to him, hed be mortified I think.

Post # 6
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Buzzing bee

I think that’s a great idea, so sweet and thoughtful.  But also, if it becomes super stressful at the last minute and it’s something that you just can’t make happen, please don’t worry about it.  I’m actually in a wedding on July 31st which is my husband’s birthday.  The couple are greats friends of ours and we don’t mind a bit that their wedding is on his birthday.  I think a wedding is a much bigger deal and we are more than happy to celebrate his birthday the next day.  In fact, he’s kind of excited to share his birthday with their anniversary : )

Post # 7
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: February 2011

really cute!!

Post # 8
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Sugar bee

That’s a great idea (just make sure he doesn’t mind the spotlight on him).  Some people are really shy.

Post # 10
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Bumble bee

I think that is very thoughtful of you and I am sure he will appreciate the gesture. It will be memorable for him for sure!!

Post # 11
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

I think that is great! My friend just got married and they did an anniversary cake for her FI’s aunt and uncle as they got married on their wedding anniversary. It was really nice – they did a mini-cake cutting ceremony. It was nice.

Post # 12
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: March 2018

Only if you want to, but I don’t think it’s necessary.  People have birthdays every year but only getting married once.  They can celebrate his the day before, the day after, etc.  I’m sure he doesn’t mind and totally understands.  I would if I were him. 

Post # 13
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

That’s very sweet and generous, and I’m sure he’d be floored, but I agree with the previous poster who said it’s not necessary.  If I had to go to a wedding on my birthday, I wouldn’t mind a bit!  But it’s a very sweet idea, definitely.

Post # 14
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: January 1991

That’s so fun!!  My best friend’s wedding day was the same day as another bridesmaid’s birthday.  So, we sang to her at the reception after they cut the cake.  It was really fun and I know she really appreciated it.  Great idea!!

Post # 15
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2010

Great idea, you are a wonderful friend.

Post # 16
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Blushing bee

I may be in the minority but I would not be into it if it was my birthday. I think my husband would find it a bit over the top too. But we also aren’t huge birthday celebraters to begin with. If you think he’ll be into it though, its nice of you.

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