- 5 years ago
…is really feeling the heat from my planning and waiting. I’m starting to regret talking so much about how the proposal is coming. I know it’s a little ridiculous, but they (her and her SO) got in a fight this morning because they’ve been together longer than me and my SO and she asked her SO why he wasn’t ready. He said that they aren’t in a place where they are ready as a couple because they’re still having fights over petty things. He doesn’t think their parents would support them at this point because of age among other reasons. He also lists financial instability as a reason. She says none of this should matter because they already know they want to be together. Is he just coming up with excuses? What should be my role in this (other than offering support/advice/etc.)?
In a nutshell, she’s ready and he wants to wait.
She’s ready to leave him. (Which to me suggests that she doesn’t love him as much as she thinks because this–as far as I know– is a fairy new topic for fighting) She keeps saying that every man has acted this way and she doesn’t understand why no one wants to be with her…
I don’t really know what to do. I know I should stay out of it, but… I am her best friend. I feel like I should be able to do something. Maybe I should stop talking to her about my plans?
Has anyone else experienced this? What did/would you do?