- 8 years ago
- Wedding: October 2010
Without getting into it, suddenly all of my 4 best girlfriends have drama with each other. We were all close in high school, hung out together, were best friends for 10 years. After college we all drifted a bit due to distance and going seperate paths but we are the best friends we’ve got. None of my friends are mad at me, but they are all mad at each other and I’m kind of in the middle.
Of course I want them to resolve things for their own personal lives so that we can all be happy again. But I can’t help but think about how this will effect the wedding- it’s in a couple months. I’m sure everyone will play nice at the wedding if things haven’t blown over, but I don’t want my best friends just to “play nice.” We are not having a wedding party so they aren’t my bridesmaids, but I have asked two of them to be readers. They’ll attend the rehearsal dinner, help me get ready, etc. etc. and it’s just going to be so awkward.
I don’t want to get in the middle of it. I’ve got enough to think about with the wedding and moving back home and everything. Right now I am just hoping things get resolved before the wedding.
Are you in this situation? Have you been in this situation? What would you do?