- 5 years ago
- Wedding: September 2013
My BF/MOH broke up with this jerk about 6 months ago and now they are back together…
He was the worst person in the world for her. When they started dating he was fine but after about 6 months he began to belittle her. She told me that he tells her she’s “worthless”, tells her she isn’t pretty enough, tells her that her job “isn’t real”, tells her that no one else would want to be with her, gives her the silent treatment, ignores her in general, doesn’t call her for weeks as “punishment”…the list goes on.
They broke up after about a year of this and I helped her the best I could to restore her self-confidence and broken heart. I had finally thought she was done with him and was doing SO well…
Now she told me last week that he has “changed” and they got back together.
The only thing I could think of saying was that I didn’t agree with it and that i’m worried about her. I don’t know how I could “force her” to break up with him or anything…she is 38 years old and feels she can make her own decisions…even if they are bad ones.
What can I do here? I feel totally helpless and I worry about her all of the time.