- 5 years ago
- Wedding: November 2012
Today has been a day I won’t forget ever, my best friend who currently lives with me tells me she’s 4 days late for her period, as a clock work 28 day girl, 4 days late – and sore boobs, is a worrying sign.
I went and got the test for her and it was positive. 2 pink lines and no room for denial.
And here’s the kicker, she used a condom. and the father is a guy she’s been seeing for 6 weeks. On the face of it, it’s so unfair.
Nothing is right here, she doesn’t have the finances, stable relationship or even a place of her own (although if she decides to keep it and wants to continue to live with me I certainly woudn’t kick her out, but I doubt she’d want to stay here to be honest)
I love this girl like a sister and will support any decision she makes. She’s told the father and he’s taken it suprisingly well. The thing I suppose I’m harbouring is my internal dilemma, I want kids and there is a questionmark hanging over my ability to hae children, where here she is with the decision of a life time to make and I feel like I can’t give her impartcial advice because of where I am on having children.
How do I help her right now without trying to sway her decision?