(Closed) My BM wants to wear her BM dress to her own wedding….

posted 6 years ago in Dress
  • poll: Would you have told her yes too??
    I would have said yes too.... : (162 votes)
    93 %
    I would have told her no.... : (13 votes)
    7 %
  • Post # 3
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    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: May 2013

    That must be one awesome dress!! 🙂 And very sweet of you!

    Post # 4
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    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: July 2012

    I say why not. It would be great if she could add a sash or a pretty headpiece and make it a little different from your wedding day.

    Post # 5
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    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: May 2011

    I think that is great that you said “yes”!  Brides are always saying how they want to pick BM dresses that they can wear again around here, so the fact that she’s getting extra use out of it is awesome!

    Post # 6
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    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: August 2011

    @happybbbeee:  I agree.  So sweet of you OP.  Let’s see the dress!!!

    Post # 7
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    Busy bee
    • Wedding: November 2014

    Very kind of you! Are your BM dresses white?

    Post # 9
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    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: September 2012

    I think that you made the right decision!

    First of all, this is such an honor – and it’s a public statement that you have great taste!!! Second, I think it’s a super awesome way to help with her budget!

    I think you made a really great decision and that you have a really great friend since she offered to ask beforehand. You rock!

    Post # 10
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    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: September 2012

    That was sweet of you.  Most of the time bridesmaids don’t get to use the dress for more than one day, so it’s kind of nice she gets to use it again.

    Post # 11
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    Honey bee
    • Wedding: August 2013

    @Earlybride:  I think its fine, but I suspect it doesn’t look like a traditional wedding dress. If she wanted to buy a wedding dress to wear as a BM, that would be weird. But wearing a BM dress as a bride isn’t.

    Post # 12
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    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: August 1900

    That’s awesome that she is actually getting use out of a bridesmaid dress!

    Post # 13
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    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: June 2011

    I think it’s really kind of you. Good call!

    Post # 14
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    Bumble Beekeeper

    I think it’s sweet.  You made the right choice.

    Post # 15
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    Bumble bee

    I would take it as a huge compliment (if you picked out the dresses). Definitely a yes!

    Post # 16
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    Helper bee
    • Wedding: June 2012

    @Earlybride:  You are my kind of bride!  🙂  Well done!  🙂

     

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