My boyfriend faked proposed to me :(

posted 3 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
6812 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2014

I’m so sorry you’re going through this. *hug*

My advice: Leave him. He doesn’t take you seriously. 

Post # 4
650 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

It doesn’t sound like this guy respects you or has any intention to get married.

You said before you were going to leave if he didn’t show his commitment – he hasn’t shown you anything but a “joke” proposal – so it’s time to leave.   If you don’t you’re setting yourself up to be doormat status.

Post # 5
1891 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

What a horrible thing to do to someone. I am so sorry. You will get through this. Please, move on with your life and cut off all contact with him. I am so glad that you did not move in with him. He is the joke, and he should be embarassed, not you. He sounds like a real loser… You can do so much better. Save your love for someone who deserves it.

Post # 6
1451 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

Sorry Hun, but after four years and a FAKE proposal, you need to leave him. I’m not saying that it can’t be official without a ring, because that’s not what’s important. What is important is that he asks you to be his wife and you agree, after which you begin to plan the rest of your lives together. Not that he says what he needs to in order to keep you around a while longer. If this is a sign of other commitment issues then I really doubt he will ever truely propose.

Post # 7
4072 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: January 2014

He sounds like a dick. I’m so sorry he pulled something like that on you. It doesn’t sound like this relationship is going anywhere – it’s so one-sided, and he isn’t doing anything for you. There are better men out there, I promise.

Post # 8
145 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: January 2015

I think he sounds like a jerk. I think he meant the proposal at the time, but he has obviously decided that he can get away without making any commitment to you because you stayed without a ring. The fact that he makes those comments to his friends means that he is totaly comfortable with stringing you along and doing it publicaly. If I were you I wouldn’t want to be with someone that doesn’t respect me enough to honor his proposal. He is almost making fun of you by showing that you won’t ever leave him. Respect yourself and get out of that relationship.

Post # 9
11379 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: April 2012

@maria4444:  this guy does not respect you at all.  i believe you deserve better.

Post # 10
3248 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

That is horrible! I think it’s time to go and that you will be better off without him! What will he do next… Lie about wanting to have kids and then have that be a joke too down the road ?

Post # 11
528 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

@maria4444:  You are not dead wrong. This guy sounds really insensitive and I think you are right to question how committed he is to you. 

Post # 12
980 posts
Busy bee

Ditch his disrespectful ass. He is a complete jerk and doesn’t deserve you. You should be with someone who can’t wait to propose to you and spend the rest of his life with you. I’m so sorry this guy has been so cruel to you.

Post # 13
58 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

Your boyfriend’s a douche. Time to dump him and find a real man.

Post # 14
1599 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

I’m sitting next to FI and he’s responses were… “is he an idiot? that is not ok.  she should leave his ass.”

the jury has spoken.

Post # 15
3841 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

That deception is cruel and disrespectful of you.  I hope you will find someone else who actually wants to be with you.

That man does not honor you now.  He won’t change after marriage.


Post # 16
4483 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: April 2015

1. Kick him. Hard

2. Walk away and never look back

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