(Closed) My bridesmaid is MIA…what to do?

posted 7 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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825 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

Do you have any friends in common that might have a way to get in touch with her? Maybe they have her email address. I hope she’s ok!

Post # 4
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Honey bee

If a friend of mine was that close I would imagine I would know how to get in touch with a family member. Even if you don’t have a phone number you would know their names and where they live to look up a phone number.

Doesnt anyone else have her email address as a starting place though?  do you have her address (you did send her the RSVP). Send her a note.

Post # 5
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

J and I are putting our heads together and trying to think of ways to get ahold of her.

Post # 6
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

@Nola: I would send her a letter. Seems to be the only way you get a hold of her right? Just tell her you don’t have her phone number/email, haven’t heard from her and wanted to make sure everything is okay. Maybe she lost her phone or something and lost your phone number?

Post # 9
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187 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

Because you are worried….call her work. I would.

Post # 10
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: January 1991

Yea, I would call her work number. It’s not uncommon for people to get personal calls at work somtimes… as long as it’s not a consistent thing. Maybe they haven’t seen from her either. If you are extremely worried and absolutely can’t get in touch with anyone… I would call the police. I wouldn’t want my friend to be hurt or something since she mentioned her ex went crazy that night.

Post # 11
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

Yeah, definitely call her work! I would do that AND send a valentine’s day card. If she doesn’t answer, you can just leave a message for her to call you. You don’t have to go into details about your wedding, etc. with her manager or whoever answers, so I think it’s definitely fine.

Post # 13
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

Great! Is everything ok I hope? What happened?

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