Post # 1
…And I am really confused. I don’t have a lot of girls that I am close to. I’m very busy, what with a job an hour away, and full time school. I had a couple of girls that were going to be BM’s that I knew well and a friend that I have known and have been close to since elementary! Well, my other two BM’s just found out they have been accepted to do things abroad this summer. I was dissapointed, but it was really fine. Then today my friend from way back texted me and told me that she considered me a really close friend, but that she feels like she hasn’t been a very good friend to me lately (she has gotten a little out of touch since she moved in with her married bf a few months ago). Because she feels like she hasn’t been a good friend these last few months, that apparently negates the years we have been close and she would feel awkward standing by my side. 🙁 I don’t really get it.
I still have my sister, a cousin, and another friend, but I just feel really let down.
Post # 3
oh noes at least she was honest I guess? better than her telling you a week before the wedding. Keep your chin up girl.. wedding stuff gets a little tough sometimes!
Post # 4
yeah at least you have to give her credit for honesty… it still hurts though. You still have your other bridesmaids though – so concentrate on making memories with them 🙂
Post # 5
I’m so sorry. Maybe it is better that she isn’t there since she can’t really commit any time to helping you with wedding planning?
Sorry don’t mean to be rude but did you say that her Boyfriend or Best Friend is married to someone else? Eep.
Post # 6
wow, that sucks. Sorry about that…focus on the things that are going right and let the other stuff roll on by you. upside: 1 less Bridesmaid or Best Man gift to buy??..lame I know, sorry
Post # 7
I know, I still have those other girls and they are great, I guess I just feel like the one friend that has always been there isn’t going to be. And yeah, her boyfriend was going to get a divorce, but won’t because he is afraid he will lose the custody of his kids. It’s really weird and not a great situation, she’s been really different here lately.