(Closed) My bridesmaids are making me crazy!!!!

posted 5 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
8473 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2012

Your bridesmaids are wrong.  You can pick what color you want.  It’s not about what they look good in or not, it’s about what you envision for your wedding.  And that’s final!

Post # 4
18 posts
  • Wedding: November 2012

Be strong 🙂 People can complain, make snarky comments, belittle your choice, at the end of the day, it’s your day. I actually stopped sharing my choices because too many people gave me non-constructive criticsm. I like the constructive/helpful ones though (from my Fiance, mum, and MOH).

Post # 5
2385 posts
Buzzing bee

Stay strong. Tell them you understand they are concerned, but this is what will work best for the wedding. 

Post # 6
594 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

I would sit the bridesmaid down and communicate with her. Something in the lines of:

I asked you to be part of my day because you mean a lot ot me. Fi and I are planning this wedding to represent our tastes and our life. We like these colors and the dresses. I would really appreciate it if you did not complain to me about your personal tastes, I see that we differ. I have so many other planning details to worry about and I do not want my stress to be taken out on you. 

Post # 7
1638 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

@Dreamrnpoet:  @karineh has some great advice. I would either sit down and tell them that. You do not want to hear any complaining and you want to make sure that they are pulling their weight.

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