(Closed) My bridesmaids don't get along!!! We went bridesmaid shopping yesterday…

posted 5 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2014 - Lodge

I’m so glad these two could get along for the day and help ease your mind.

So far I don’t have any issues with this. Most of my bridesmaids don’t know each other yet. And I’ve only been in one wedding so far and I get along with 2 of the other 3. The third BM I’ve never met yet.

Post # 4
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

It sounds like these girls haven’t done anything. I think this appointment shows they are both going to be grownup about the situation. You shouldn’t be stressing out, if they were being nasty or derailing wedding activities it would be another story.

I think they don’t need to be become friends and if they carry on the way did at that appointment it will be smooth sailing.

If they are being “fake” by being nice who cares! It going to make your wedding events go so much better!

Post # 5
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

What a relief! I’m happy they were able to act like adults and put aside their differences for you.

@TwoCityBride:  I don’t think she’s saying they did anything wrong, just being happy it went so well.

Post # 6
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

@Wonderstruck:  I read the op I don’t think she said that they did anything wrong, I was just pointing out since they didn’t it doesn’t seem like they will

Post # 7
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

@reynaweddingbee:  Wow I saw this thread and had to read it. I am still a waiting bee, but as every girl does I have planned my BM’s out in my head. Out of the 4 I’d have, 3 of them and I all went to school together, all parted ways and all dislike each other. ๐Ÿ™ ๐Ÿ™ ๐Ÿ™
But wow, this gives me new hope they will all be adults about it and pull together for me. I obviously don’t know how mine will go, but I really am so relieved for you that your BM’s will all be fine on the day. If it was me, I’d probably send each girl a personal message or text saying how much I appreciated it and was worried and they’ve been really amazing – thank you. or something ๐Ÿ™‚ 

Post # 9
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

@reynaweddingbee:  Thank you! Wow your girls sound awesome. Well two of them used to be friends but drifted apart and now dislike each other – so I think that could go either way – and the other just was never in their circles at school and felt excluded.
I’m so glad it went well for you though, it was really nice they are even trying to get over their differences, wow. 

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