(Closed) My bridesmaids don’t understand weddings!!

posted 6 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
9483 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2012

All I’m going to say is definitely let your Maid/Matron of Honor deal with all of these problems.  It sucks that they’re being so thick-headed about it though.  Perhaps someone could send them a guide to being a bridesmaid.  Hahaha.  Good luck, hun!

Post # 4
9824 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper

Try not to focus on what everyone else isn’t doing for you. Focus on the fact that you’re going to have fun, you have friends with you celebrating, and you’re getting married. You can’t control what other people are going to do.

Post # 5
279 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

Maybe they haven’t been in weddings before. I didn’t know that stuff about getting ready until I read your post and I’m a bride! And the other stuff I didn’t know before coming on the Bee.

Post # 6
3569 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

I actually think the issue here is the moh she shouldn’t be passing on all of this info to you. Some people who never been in a wedding really have no clue, I for one during my first wedding didn’t have any idea why in gods name we need to show up FIVE hours before the wedding. Once I got there I understood. I think unless someome is saying or doing things that will effect the wedding day thats the only time it should be brought up to the bride. It sounds like idle chatter of people who haven’t been that invovled or have no clue on how things work for a wedding. She can tell them in a diplomatic way how things will go, and sort it out. Not run back and tell you every single detail or road bump that goes on in planning your events.

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