(Closed) My Christmas Present

posted 6 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
1278 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

Aww well just try and see it for what it is – a fantastic gift that shows how much he loves you.

Post # 4
6248 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 1900

Damn girl, you’re getting a diamond necklace?!  I get the disappointment about not getting a proposal, but seriously, you should be jumping up and down with joy that your man actually buys you jewelry.  Some men don’t.  Ever.  (I know two of them.)

Post # 5
5993 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2010

hopefully this will make you laugh but for our first christmas my now husband gave me a scuba mask and snorkel and thought he hit the gift giving jackpot – picture me holding up a yellow snorkel and him looking proud and happy… yeah, i married that guy when it comes to gift giving

Post # 6
9056 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2010

It could definitely be worse.  Our first Christmas together, I helped him shop for a gift for his mom, and found some pajamas I really thought she would like.  Since I was so enthusiastic about them, he figured I REALLY liked them, and proudly presented me with a matching pair on Christmas morning.

Hehe, I think I’ll take the diamonds!

Post # 8
667 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

A diamond necklace? That would be an awesome gift but a ring would still be better lol My SO has never given me any kind of jewelry (yeah , I have one of those too) so I would settle for any jewelry. He isn’t too good in the gift giving area either, usually giving some of my favorite snacks and a gift card. Last Christmas, I was really thinking a proposal would happen, so imagine my surprise when I unwrapped some snacks and some pajamas. Yeah, not wha tI was expecting lol We were unable to spend the day togheter so at least he was spared the disappointment on my face.

Post # 9
4478 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

@eloping: haha- that’s hilarious!  I know a guy close to me who’d do something like that….Sealed

Post # 10
573 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2012


That made me laugh too! I could just imagine!

Post # 11
5148 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

@eloping – LOL!

My mom’s birthday the first year my parents were married (they had only been married a couple weeks), my dad bought her a corning-ware handle. She was gracious about it, but did make him realize before any more holidays/birthdays that she would prefer a more “romantic” gift.

Post # 12
140 posts
Blushing bee

I know you must be diasppointed despite how awesome a diamond necklace is. It’s so close yet not quite the diamond you wanted, I get it. It’s only bratty if you sulk about it, though after 6 years, I would probably be sulking a little…

The first present SO ever got me was a dustbuster. I thought to myself “I can either be insulted by this or just enjoy it”

I actually love that thing now. It’s lasted for years and it’s really handy!

Post # 13
148 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

When it comes to disappointing gifts, I think my dad pretty much wins the prize. One year he got my mom a set of canning jars (that was what they had in the gas station they stopped at right after my dad realized it was my mom’s birthday). Another year he got her a subscription to Playboy. Strangely enough, even though the gift wasn’t well received, the subscription kept getting renewed many years afterwards. 

After hearing those stories all my life, a diamond necklace sounds pretty good! But man, after 6 years, you definitely deserve a different kind of diamond too. Maybe he really is working on the other – that coworker story seems like too much of a coincidence. If he knows you know that story, it seems like he wouldn’t go down that road unless he was trying to either give you a hint or torture you. How do you know he’s not working on it? 

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