My Coworker Scheduled Her Vacation on the SAME DAYS As Our Honeymoon/Wedding…

posted 3 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: March 2014

This is just me, but I probably would have booked my vacation time before making ANY concrete plans, especially with travel involved. Are you ducking out on work to go to wedding appointments or doing wedding stuff when at work? If you are, I can see why your boss might be eager for you to be done planning.

Best of luck to you, I hope you can get your time off 🙂

Post # 5
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900 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: February 2014

@NothingSaid:  how long have u worked there?   I can’t imagine a boss would deny your wedding time when u put in for it first

Post # 6
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2052 posts
Buzzing bee

I am kind of torn here. On the one hand I think it was rude of your coworker to ask when your vacation was and book that time anyway, but on the other hand I think its a little naive of you to book things before you were sure you had the time off. You can’t expect everyone to bend to the will of your wedding. 

Anyway, since you booked things I hope you get the time off you need!

Post # 8
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689 posts
Busy bee

Don’t talk to Annie anymore, or at least dont tell her stuff like when u will be gone until you get it approved.

Post # 10
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900 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: February 2014

Again. How long have you been there

Post # 11
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: March 2014

@NothingSaid:  How long does it take for you to get time off approved? Everywhere I’ve ever worked, you put the request in, the boss checks that the time is ok, and it’s done!

Post # 14
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 2015

@NothingSaid:  Omg, this Annie is such a biatch. What does she have against you?? Can you ask her if she could request different days because you’ve already booked your honeymoon? That’s the first thing that I would do. Then worst case scenario, your time off gets denied, I’d pay whatever fees necessary to change the dates of the honeymoon trip. Lesson learned is to get the time off first before paying for flights and hotels, you can never be too careful, especially with coworkers like Annie.

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