- 5 years ago
- Wedding: February 2013
Ok, so our wedding is in february – which is only 5 months away!!
Our invitations came in the mail about 1 month ago. And my FI, mom, dad & me all sat down to put them together. Everything was good to go, and the labels and such were done and ready to be mailed out. But yesterday my dad decided that he wanted to change the invitation because the word “only” daughter wasn’t included in the invitation, and he thought that would be very vital to not include. My FI and i explained that it’s ok, and just let it go, because we are kind of pressed for time.
But no, what does he do? He went ahead and contacted the bridal invitations on his own, and placed a whole new order and completely changed our initial format, and the new invitations that he ordered look hideous! I am such a Type A personality, that this is bugging me so much that my name is on something that looks so “tacky”.
Granted he’s paying for majority of the wedding, including the cards, but still. I thought that was very shallow and heartless of him to go behind our backs and do something like that, and be very stubborn and adamant about it.
I reallly to want to cancel my wedding completely, and just elope becuase he is litterallty driving me insane. He acted like a complete idiot and I don’t know what to do — or how to even handle this now! HELP!!!