- 7 years ago
- Wedding: June 2011
My parents were divorced when I was about 8 years old. I lost contact with my dad then we became really close and now that I live in another city we talk occassionally and see one another on holidays. He has lived with the same woman and her son for 13 years now. I wanted my grandfather and my dad to walk me down the aisle because my grandfather has been there for me always in every way and I did not want to take the position away from my dad either. My dad will not have it! He said he is not helping pay for the wedding if he cannot walk me by himself. I told him that was fine. Now he says he just wants to show up and watch. What do I do? I am not giving up my grandfather walking me though. Also, when the family comes out should he be in that too since he does not want to come to rehearsal or anything like that now?
Also, he never came to any of my school events or anything like that. Never financially supported me. But his girlfriends son he does everything with and even drives the band truck to football games which hurts also.