My Dad was arrested…. (LONG)

posted 3 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: October 2013

i’m sure everything will be cleared up.  It sounds like E and her bf have a lot of issues. And the BF is dragging her down.

Post # 4
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2009

@Crushed:  Oh my goodness what a mess. First, I am so very sorry you and your family are going through this. I really don’t have any advice to offer. E sounds like a compulsive liar and from your story, I flat out don’t believe her. I am a victim of abuse myself and frankly, you don’t behave like this if/when you finally have the courage to expose the abuse.

Post # 5
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

hugs, your niece sounds like a lunatic… she needs a evaluation done because ruining peoples life for the hell of it is NOT OKAY. seriously boy who cried wolf story i see happening if this cycle continues/ also did her real father actually abuse her or not?

Post # 6
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2015

I don’t really have much to say, other than the fact that I am so sorry you are going through this. Hopefully, they will release him today and instead of charging him, they will charge her with making a false police report.

Post # 8
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

I am so sorry you are going through this.  As an outsider, it seems pretty clear that E is lying.  I am sure everything will get worked out and your dad will be fine.  Just stinks that the relationship with E is forever changed for everyone including her, all because of a dumb guy.

Post # 10
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Bumble bee

@Crushed:  sounds like this grl has serious issues, I’m so sorry for your father, experiences like this cn really change you. I’m praying the situation will pass over without a stain on his record

Post # 12
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: January 2015

I really hope that when everything settles, E is cut off from any form of communication and financial assistance from your dad/stepmom. This is crazy. E has lost her mind and is looking to stir up drama and sympathy, and will obviously bring down anyone, even the people who took her in when she needed it, with her.

Post # 13
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

@Crushed:  Oh I am so sorry to hear all this! It sounds to me like your niece is looking for attention in any way she can get it…. and I am not normally one to brush aside allegations like this, but I honestly don’t think your father has done anything, based on the story you tell above… I really hope everything works out and your Dad is cleared.

Your niece sounds like she needs some serious help…

Post # 14
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 2014

wow i can’t believe all of this happened. i’m so sorry that you and your family are having to deal with this. it sounds to me like E is a compulsive liar and craves attention. i feel pretty sure she is lying since she already told her mom it wasn’t true and only a plot to keep her boyfriend around. i think removing her from your wedding completely is a good idea and let your dad walk you down the aisle. especially if all this is made up by her lies, there’s no need to worry about what people will think/say. i hope everything gets figured out soon!

Post # 15
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2009

@Crushed:  Exactly. You just don’t behave like this.

I highly doubt any charges will be pressed against him just by her word, especially considering E’s reputation of lying and craziness, and when so many others are defending your dad’s character.

Hang in there, OP. I have faith he WILL be there to walk you down the aisle. It’s apparent everyone in your family recognizes E’s mental issues so I highly doubt you will have any black cloud on your wedding day.

Post # 16
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Bumble bee

@Crushed:  dnt judge ppl from their appearance tho, everyone is affected differently depending on their lives experience. If youve been thru a lot of pain in your life you develop a mechanism to sweep things under the rug no matter how big or small

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