(Closed) My DH is stalking me on the bee!

posted 6 years ago in Weddingbee
Post # 3
3569 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

I’m not surprised my Fi is so annoyed with the bee in fact when he around I don’t log on anymore

Post # 4
4464 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: February 2012

@piglover:  My husband threatens all the time that he’s going to make an account on here just to look up what I write. I get so secretive whenever he wants to see what I’m writing and sometimes he gets annoyed, like oh you’re on that website again. I would ask him about it if it were me, but not in an upset way, because truthfully I wouldn’t be upset. 

Post # 5
4 posts
  • Wedding: November 2012


lol my Fiance has checked out my post as well. It is a little weird but I guess he was just curious. He told me he was doing it too.

Post # 7
2224 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2014

My SO *better NOT* be stalking me, what with my secret plans. I’ve explicitly told him, “Do NOT cyberstalk me, or we will have problems.” he said he would never do that, has no interest in snooping on me and has total respect for my privacy. Phew!

In the past I had a boyfriend that kept me totally under his thumb, checked everything even my email, my text messages literally snatching my phone out of my hands, followed my online activity web history, and it really made me neurotic about my privacy after we broke up. So Mr. Bunny really understands that it would be god awful for him to cyberstalk me.

Post # 8
3801 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

Mine knows I am on a site, but I dont want him to find me. After relentless pressure, I finally told him I was on The Knot and that my user name was something waaaay different than this one. HAHA! I know he searched and came up with nothing because he never mentioned it again.

Post # 9
2239 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

LOL, this cracks me up.  Usually my Fiance is just like ‘you’re on the board again?’

Yeah, pretty much how I say ‘you’re playing your video game again?’ 

=P But as far as I know he doesn’t look at what I post hahaha

Post # 10
542 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

Ahh! I have to watch out! If he stalks me, he’ll see my dress!

Although, sometimes I’ll comment below him on the message board he regulars to joke around (vacation related stuff)…; so I have some karma waiting for me!

Post # 11
4275 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

This is funny to me. My husband knows I am on here all the time, but he is also on his forum all the time too. So he gets it.

Post # 12
2874 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 2013

i used to post under my real name…and then i realised i might want to be a little more anonymous. Theres nothing i wouldnt let him see if he explicitly asked, but i prefer that he doesnt read if – its a place for me to vent/ask advice/chat and id feel really inhibited if i knew he was reading every post!

Post # 15
2693 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2008

OMG biggest fear!!!  Darling Husband has noticed recently how often I’m on WB and asks me “what are you posting about now?” I usually tell him waht the thread is about, and he’s not interested.  Sometimes when it’s about in-laws, I “pad” the truth a little and say it’s about periods or yeast infections or something.

Once he was like “I’m going to sign up for wedding bee” and I FREAKED.  I can’t have him on here looking at what I’ve written because I have vented some, uh, incriminating thoughts on his parents (to be fair, I’ve said all this to his face, but I know he probably wouldn’t like that I always particiapte in the “do you like your MIL/FIL/Inlaws” posts, etc.”.  I don’t have a problem with him reading my responses to ANYTHING else, but oh god, the stuff about his family?  Nooo way.  Maybe that means I just shouldn’t post anything about them…but where else would I vent??

He once was messing around with my WB tab that was open and was reading the page with “recent replies”…I was in the kitchen and said “please don’t read any of those” and he said “i just want to know what you’re talking about!” so he asked me what my responses were to things like “what are the top 5 thigns you hope to accomplish in your life”.  I don’t mind sharing that with him at ALL.  But, I know that he mostly forgets about WB unless he sees me on it, so I know he’d never cyberstalk me, also because I’ve told him I wanted to keep it private.  He’s like “WHY?” and I’m like uh where else can I talk about all kinds of girl things with impartial people?? And that usually satisfies him.

Post # 16
1403 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2015

Oh man, that’s annoying.  I won’t tell SO my username.  He knows I’m on here all the time, but he doesn’t need to see what I write.  I told him if he’s really all the curious he can ask me, but it’s just a bunch of wedding stuff. 

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