Post # 1
Here’s my dirty little secret, which I’m posting under my “anonymous” account:
My FILs are moving sometime shortly after the wedding, and I’m kind of pumped. I feel bad for FI because he’s sad they’re moving, but where they’re moving to is not terribly far away. Just far enough that we probably won’t see them quite as often.
To be even more honest, it’s not my FFIL, it’s my FMIL that I am glad to see a little farther away. She’s been driving me a little crazy with the wedding. She has kind of a tendency to just be bitchy in general. Usually, it’s completely random when it happens. Things will be going along great at dinner, she’s in a good mood, and then all of the sudden, POW bitchy mood floats in out of nowhere. And it’s usually not directed at me or FI, it’s directed at her husband (who doesn’t deserve it, IMO). But the wedding has pointed the bitchiness at me a little, and I won’t be one bit sorry to see that go away.
Sorry, just had to confess somewhere! So what’s your “dirty little secret”?
Post # 3
My dirty secret is that i hope my dad is too sloshed to go to my wedding. Last time we spoke he said I was the “biggest disappointment of his life.” It’s an evening wedding and he usually starts drinking at 10 AM and I hope he passes out at 3 or 4 and can’t go.
Post # 4
I completely understand!!!
Post # 5
my dirty little secret is that I am glad to be living over 300 miles away from in laws and my family….
Not that I dont like them or miss them sometimes but it is nice to have the distance.
Post # 6
My dirty little secret is that I’m hoping most of FI’s family doesn’t show up so there is more room for mine. I am inviting people who aren’t close family, but I’m not allowing FI to do so because I am not comforable getting married in front of people I’ve never met, however he has met all the people I’m inviting.
Post # 7
My dirty little secret is, we are thinking about eloping because I am pregnant! 😀 No one in my family know about it yet.
Post # 8
@PennyLainne: Congrats! That may be a secret but not dirty! What a blessing!!!
Post # 9
@luvmyDwight: Thank you. I am pretty stoked about it. Just trying to wrap my head around eloping…. and trying to find THE Dress… But we will see. I don’t want to wait.
Post # 11
- Wedding: February 2013 - Colonial Country Club, Ft. Myers, FL
My dirty little secret is that I secretly hope all my extended family from NY doesn’t show up so I won’t have to worry about paying for them :oP
Post # 12
my dirty little secret is that I hope my FMIL moves into “poor neglected old people” apartment and leaves us the HELL alone. Seriously, she is such a horrible person I don’t even think me or my fiance would miss her at the wedding. Sad but true.
Post # 13
my dirty little secret is that I hope our wedding falls on a non pay week for my FIL. They can’t keep a dollar in their pockets and no money means no bar tab. Yahoo!
Post # 14
Mine is that I could care less about having my bridesmaids there! Don’t get me wrong–I feel really loved and supported that they’re coming–but the idea of spending time with them and getting them settled when I want to just be relaxing in the days before the wedding (they’re all flying in from overseas) is stressful.