You Girls Will Understand
more by imLissy
10,000 steps
drama with an ex.
more in Emotional
Parent favoritism?
Happy Thanksgiving to all the American Bees!
more in Boards
Thanksgiving Recipe Exchange-- post your yummy recipes here!

My Dog is Sick

posted 2 years ago in Emotional
  • 1 Members Subscribed To Topic
  •  
    1.
    Member
    122 posts
    Blushing bee
    imLissy    1/3/10   NJ

    My 14 yr old lab has been sick this past week and a half. She throws up in the morning, she's not eating well, her nose is warm, she seems like she's in pain from her legs and generally looks pretty bad. My parents took her to the vet, but she got so freaked out, they couldn't finish all their tests. They're afraid to bring her back because my dad thought she was going to die on the car ride home; that's how freaked she got. They did feel a lump in her stomach though, but she has fatty tumors all over the place. In summary, she's sick and we don't know what's wrong.

    Our wedding is in a little over a month. When we set our wedding date, I felt like I was giving her a death sentence. I knew something like this would happen. I know she's old, but she's our little baby. Even suckier, I don't live with her anymore, so I can't go home at night and cuddle her :(

    Everyone's bumed out as it is. I really hope she doesn't get any worse. I also worry about her on the wedding day, being taken care of by a stranger.

    I don't know what to do. I feel so helpless :(

     
    2.
    Member Icon
    Member
    6,442 posts
    Bee Keeper
    KMSull    August 7, 2010   Lexington, KY (via Atlanta, GA)

    14 years old is REALLY old for a lab! That's awesome you've had her for so long, but it sounds like she's in a LOT of pain and suffering. I'm sorry Frown

     
    3.
    Member Icon
    Member
    266 posts
    Helper bee
    The immigrant bride    June 25, 2010   Santa Barbara, CA/Los Angeles, CA

    So sorry for you. I agree with KMSull 14 years is really old for a LAb. HUGS

     
    4.
    Member Icon
    3,378 posts
    Sugar bee
    Laylabelle    November 7, 2009  

    Oh no!! Could the vet maybe call in a sedative so that she can be taken to the doctor to have those tests and still be comfortable and not freaked out? I really hope you can find out what's wrong, or at least that she improves. :( I'm so sorry. 14 is pretty old, she's an amazing dog! I just love labs... I used to have one myself. I really hope your parents can get her back to the vet. :(

     
    5.
    Member Icon
    Member
    687 posts
    Busy bee
    2010bride2bee    September 2010  

    I'm sorry. It's so hard when the end is nearing for a pet. I've been an animal lover all my life and have been through this many times. 14 years is a very long time for a lab, she's lived a good long life and nothing about setting your wedding date has any impact on that.

    The vet could easily prescribe something to calm her for the car ride and the exam/tests to be completed. You could wrap it up in a piece of cheese and she'll probably take it. If not, just put it in her mouth, hold her mouth shut and stoke underneath and up and down her neck untll she swallows it.

    There are also still some mobile vets that will come to your house. Harder to find, but they are out there...

    Don't think about the wedding day just yet, just take it one day at a time and see if they can determine what is wrong with her and if/how it can be treated.

    Best of luck.

     
    6.
    Member
    947 posts
    Busy bee
    mimosa    May 29, 2010   NC

    aaww 14 years, that's rare for a lab.  You must take great care of your baby!  I know it's so hard to see them go through pain and not be themselves.  I truly feel for you right now, I hope everything works out in the end. Frown

     
    7.
    Member
    122 posts
    Blushing bee
    imLissy    1/3/10   NJ

    Thanks everyone. I'll ask my parents about giving her a sedative. They gave her some tranquilizers to take when there's thunder, but they just made her sleepy and freaked. Maybe something stronger.

    Last weekend when I was home, she tried to steal the pie crust off my plate on the kitchen table, so we thought there was a good chance she might get better on her own, but I think it's best if she goes back to the vet. At the very least I'm sure they can give her something to make her more comfortable.

     
    8.
    Member
    1,448 posts
    Bumble bee
    EAQ219    May 22, 2010   Bethesda, MD

    I'm really sorry to hear about your Lab :( Hopefully she takes a turn for the better soon.

     
    9.
    Hostess
    5,480 posts
    Bee Keeper
    Jessie516    May 16, 2009   Ann Arbor, MI

    I'm so sorry to hear about your dog.  Losing a pet can be awful, especially if she's been a part of your family for so long. 

     
    10.
    Hostess
    8,491 posts
    Bumble
    Beekeeper
    Mrs. DG    July 18, 2009   Seattle/Tahoe

    Oh, hugs.  I hope they take her in and find something simple that she can recover from for now.

    I'll be thinking of you today.

     
    11.
    Hostess
    5,841 posts
    Bee Keeper
    His Barista    September 4, 2010   Spokane, WA

    Sounds like what happend when the boxer we had for 14 years got sick. My parents made the choice to put him down, and it's the hardest thing to do. They're in AZ so I didn't even get to say goodbye, and they didn't tell me until the day after. My FIL's might have to put a dog down, too.

    It's so so hard. I hope your little baby pulls through!

     
    12.
    Member
    474 posts
    Helper bee
    Beav1279    December 27, 2009   Austin, TX

    I know how hard this is.. but in the end, you have to think about how your doggie feels and not how you feel. I had to put down my 18 year old cat and my 14 year old dog only months apart from each other last year and it was the hardest thing I've ever had to do.. but they were suffering, and it was right to do that for them.

    My thoughts are with you. It's tough to lose a pet, but you'll get through it... it just takes time.

     

    Reply

    You must log in to post.





    Visit our sister sites eHarmony
    Online Dating
    eHarmony Advice
    Dating Advice
    Project Wedding
    Wedding Songs
    JustMommies
    Pregnancy Calendar
    Copyright 2004-2012, Weddingbee.com
     

    Find your vendors on Weddingbee

    Real reviews from brides in your area!

    Favors by Weddingbee

    • Favors by season

    Shop Now ยป

    Find Registry Find Registry Find Registry

    More
    User Posts Today
    Rojocameo 16
    Rivendeler 15
    lionskitty 9
    Suikerbossie 9
    ellisrobertson 9
    kat2014 8
    Future Mrs K 8
    fivemonthsnotice 8
    couawilou 7
    keranos 7

    Emotional

    User Posts Today
    NotAnotherAnonBee 3
    Sasha2011 1
    candykiss 1
    redheadem 1
    MadameTussaud 1
    Sunfire 1
    sylvia.riggle 1
    shychigirl 1
    Future Tompkins 1
    More