My dress! Current lack of self confidence….

posted 3 years ago in Dress
Post # 3
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 2013 - castle green

you look great!

Post # 4
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

Aw hun.

I promise you, you look perfectly wonderful in that dress. It nips in your waist, you look slim and streamlined, and I genuinely see no issues with your arms.

Beautiful. Stop overthinking!

Post # 5
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

That dress looks gorgeous on you!

Post # 6
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

I love the dress, it looks great on you!

Post # 7
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

As a heterosexual man, I assure you that I first noticed your hourglass figure.  By the way, that’s a polite thing we say when we mean “nice boobs and great hips.”  I’m not trying to be creepy/hit on you, I’m just trying to honestly tell you that you look attractive.  The dress is fantastically flattering.  I didn’t even look at your arms until you specifically mentioned you were worried about them.  They don’t look fat; they look like arms.  And, if you truly are unhappy with them, the good news is that toning them wouldn’t affect how the dress fits!

As for how your groom will feel about the way you look when he sees you, you should know this:

Research shows that men’s idea of an attractive female body shape is NOT what the media portrays as an ideal female body.  It’s actually women who see that as the ideal.  Men tend to prefer women who can withstand a strong gust of wind without disappearing over the horizon – do you know how hard it was to find the right woman once?  We don’t want her slipping through a sidewalk crack, or blowing away in a storm, after all that effort!  😛

My point being, you look wonderful in that dress, and he’s going to love how you look.  To hell with everyone else!

Post # 8
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Buzzing bee

@GRL2289:  Your boobs look fabulous, and your arse looks delicious. Once the gown is steamed/pressed, you’ll be good to go!

Post # 9
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 1996

@GRL2289:  GREAT dress, and it looks amazing on you because YOU are amazing. You are gorgeous. Don’t let yourself have any doubt about how beautiful you look in that dress.

Post # 10
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2013

I love how you look in your dress!!

@Duncan:  Off topic: I never knew you were man! Not that it matters but I didnt know at all. LOL

Post # 11
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

@gelaine22:  I’ve actually been quite surprised how many people on here didn’t know Duncan is a boy’s name 😛

Post # 12
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Busy bee

That’s really the perfect shape for you. You look great.

Post # 13
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

You look beautiful!

Post # 14
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: May 2013

You look AMAZING!

Post # 15
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2013

@Duncan:  LOL. I assumed it was a last name or maybe someone’s FI’s naame or something.

 

Post # 16
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2015

Go in confidence, you look amazing! 

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