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My dress is messed up!

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    StrawberryBaby    August 22 2009  

    I got a call that my dress came in last week.  I made an appointment to try it on today.  I brought the same shoes that I wore 5 months ago when I ordered my gown.


    Also, when I ordered my gown, I paid extra for a hallow-to-hem measurement and to have the gown made in the right length for me.  I was super excited at the time I ordered my dress to find out that this was an option because my dress has some delicate lace detail around the entire hem and I was willing to pay extra to avoid having the lace taken on and off the dress.  

    When I put the dress on wearing my shoes tonight, the dress was too long.  By 3 inches!  I don't know who made the mistake, the store or the manufacturer!  But when you pay over $2000 for a dress, you expect it to be done right!  Am I being unreasonable??   
     
    To top it all off, the salesgirl at the store was unable to assure me that I would NOT be charged for the additional alterations.  I'm waiting for an email from the owners of the store next week.  

    Seriously??  I am beyond upset right now!    

    Has this ever happened to anyone else?

     
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    snmcdowell    9-13-08   Chicago

    Don't worry about the hem - for dresses like this, the extra length is taken up at the waist or bust, leaving them hem untouched. It's an easy fix, and even if they do charge you, it shouldn't be overly expensive.

     
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    StrawberryBaby    August 22 2009  

    There's no seam at the waist or the bust.  


    The only way to shorten the dress is at the hem.  

     
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    MrsCPT    08-08-09   Texas

    I think that the people at the bridal salons add length when they measure for hollow to hem dresses.  I am only four inches shorter than my FH, and at the time I ordered my dress (also hollow to hem) I planned to wear flats or a kitten heel.  When I went for the first fitting I took about five pair of shoes at various heights.  The ones that worked were 3.5" high, not the flats I had told them I would be wearing.  Hopefully the salon will be able (and willing) to help you out at no cost to you.

     
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    BunnyBlue    03/7/09   Sunny South Florida

     First take a deep breath , everything will work out. I entirely understand your frustration , and I'm sure the manager will as well. Good luck and please keep up updated! 

     
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    Lillindy    September 2008   Bay Area, CA

    I know exactly how you feel.  I had a dress that was difficult like that to alter.  I would really push for them to fix this problem at NO CHARGE to you...it's not your fault...especially since you paid the extra money already to avoid this problem, so now the extra cost needs to fall on them and if it was the manufacturer's fault then they can ask them for a reimbursement. 

     
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    BeachyBride2010    Jan, 2010   Jamaica

    Stick to your guns!  You wore the correct shoes, they need to make it right at no charge to you, with an apology!  This is why you ordered it custom and waited 5 months!

     

     
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    fizicsGirl    8/1/2009   Michigan

    They have to cover the charges for hemming it (the other alterations will probably still be at your cost).  Can you ask to see the original order they submitted?  This would help clarify where the mistake was made.  But its ridiculous that you would custom order a length and not get it.  You've already paid to have the dress be a specific length!  You shouldn't have to pay for that again...bridal salons love to act like nothing is in their control b/c it's all on the designer's factory, but you entered into the transaction with the salon, and they are the ones who should rectify it. 

    But I do think that you'll have to get an agreement from the store owners, not the salesperson helping you.  It's very frustrating (and imho unprofessional) that you should have to wait a week for this information.  I feel like bridal salons are worse about this kind of customer service b/c they know that you're only a one time customer.  But if they end up not working this out agreeably, I would use the power of the internet to let people know how they have treated you. 

     
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    snmcdowell    9-13-08   Chicago

    Can you post a photo of the dress?

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