My FH Groomsman is M.I.A

posted 2 years ago in Family
Post # 2
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2015

ang3lina411:  Is FI on good terms with his parents? I would suggest having him talk to them first and see if they can provide any insight.

Post # 4
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2015

It seems to me that he doesn’t want to be in the wedding. I say ask someone else. 

Post # 5
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

At this point, I would say do nothing. He still has 5 months to rent or purchase a tux/suit/whatever. There really isn’t anythng he needs to do now, is there?

Post # 8
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2015

ang3lina411:  why are you losing patience? This is your FIs arena. His brother doesn’t even need to be fitted for Months so theres no reason for buying trouble. Let them sort this out for a few months.

Post # 10
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

ang3lina411:  One thing I learned a long time ago is that worrying is a total waste of time. It doesn’t accomplish anything.

If you hear from him and he rents the tux and shows up for the wedding, great.

If he doesn’t, you and your FI will be married with or without him.

Post # 12
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

She can walk alone, it wont be the end of the world

You are so far out from the wedding that hes probably not wanting to deal with it. March is a while away and it isn’t likely even on his radar. Start worrying in late Feb

If you see him over Christmas just talk to him then. for now chill

Post # 14
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

Boxerlover24:  She will do just fine. She has been walking on her own since she was about 1 year of age.,

Bridesmaids can enter and leave on their own, ditto with groomsmen, or two bridesmaids can be with one groomsman.

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