My FI wont pick his groomsmen….

posted 3 years ago in Grooms/men
Post # 3
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Helper bee

@Jessicachantal:  Does he have a lot of options to pick from??

I would think it might be a difficult decision if he’s anxious about some of his buddies not making the cut. On the other hand, if he isn’t that close to many guys he might not know who to ask..

Post # 4
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

@Jessicachantal:  maybe he feels like it’s too far away? you have a good amount of time still

Post # 5
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

FI was the same way (we got engaged June 2012, wedding June 2014). I finally made him pick because all of his guy friends assumed they were the best man – I told him he needed to inform them of the truth! For FI, he just didn’t want to hurt any feelings of his guy friends.

Post # 7
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2015

@Jessicachantal:  My FI did the same thing. I picked all my bridesmaids and he took months before he finally even gave me a real list. I told him he has to tell these people so they know that they now have this obligations, he finally just casually told them in his words “hey guys your probably gonna be in my wedding”. I think it may just be a guy thing. They don’t really care as much as we do!

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