Post # 77
That must be a horrible feeling. I’m so sorry for you. *squeeze* But you dodged a bullet! You realized what a peice of crap he was BEFORE you got married!! And now you can find a real man who deserves you and who will treat you exactly how you should be treated!
Post # 77
Chiotilidieo : hi, I know this post is really old. But I’m going through the exact same thing, it’s as if what you wrote here was written by me. He cheated on me while he was absolutely head over heels in love with me. Once I found out about him cheating he denied it all and called me paranoid and hasn’t spoke to me yet. I’ve got NC ever since. I haven’t heard anything from him since the discovery day. It’s been almost 20 days. I read your update. What happened with your relationship?
Post # 78
pinkberries11 : hi dear,
I stayed in the toxic relationship with zero trust…. constant fighting and arguing and then I caught him red handed cheating AGAIN, different woman. I left him and never saw him again. I dated many men for many years after, I have now been with my sweetheart I met online for two wonderful years and he is the true love of my life. He has never made me question trust or loyalty. Leave him darling and never look back, move forward and grow. Move on and better yourself, truly. Life goes on, you will find better, it may take years, but the right one will come along and make you realize how wrong this cheater was and how toxic he was to you. Hugs hun! Xoxoxo chin up!
Post # 79
Chiotilidieo : thank you for your reply. Your story gives me hope and strength. I will try to move on, and I wish he will never do what he did to me with another woman, no one deserves to feel this way. It just breaks me that he never reached out to say sorry, and completely ignores my existence. Thanks for sharing your story; I’m so happy to hear the happy ending and I’m sure anyone is lucky to be with a kind woman like you. Thank you, good luck with everything. Xoxo
Post # 80
I’m so so sorry, Bee. We are all here for you now. *Big hugs
Concerning your FI though, it sounds like he doesn’t give a rats a$$ and that is a huge red flag. You deserve so much more. You deserve a man who ONLY wants to be with you, who calls you nonstop to talk because he misses you and you deserve someone who wants to spend the rest of his life with ONLY you.
Post # 81
Chiotilidieo : just a suggestion – you may want to close this thread and the person who replied to you could start her own. Often people only read the original post which will mean you end up getting a whole lot of responses to your situation from 6 years ago. I’m glad to see that you’ve found happiness 🙂