- 5 years ago
- Wedding: October 2013
Ok, please don’t get out the rotten veggies and pelt me for being a troll. I am a regular bee here, I do not want to post under my regular name as my friends and family post on here too and I am dealing with a sensitive issue with my fiance/boyfriend
I was using our pc and was downloading and saving images for big huge labs, a photo editing app online. As I was uploading the saved images, I found a folder of pictures of my fiance that I have never seen before. They were pics of him laying in bed half naked with his arm behind his head and staring at the camera with a “come hither” look. Then another of his penis, a close up in fact, and another of his bare chest.
These photos have dates from a few months back. I checked browser history, found links to Craigslist casual section another similar website. All the links were to postings of various sleazy type women looking for sex. A few posts he had looked at were deleted.
Then there were links to gmail, so I eneterd that and it came up, he didn’t log out. I looked through his e-mails, he had been responding to the ads, chatting back and forth about sex, exchanged nude pics.
If the people asked to meet up in person, he never responded back. I do have the general feeling that he wasn’t looking to meet up, but who knows? I found e-mails going back for 6 months, he seems to do this on occasion, not every week, sometimes a few times a week.
We have been having some issues about a few things lately and over these issues I have started some fights from being upset. We see each other a few times a week. I don’t know why, but I had a weird feeling that something was weird. I kept expecting to find something. I don’t know, there is a woman visiting her mom next door that is attractive, he mentioned seeing her a few times and that the mother seems to want him to meet her daughter. I was feeling a little jealous so I thought that was it.
I feel sick right now, heart broken, I wonder if he has a mental illness? Has anyone delt with this before? Is it normal, I realize porn has advanced a lot over the years, people back in the 60’s though videos were a deal breaker, maybe this online nonsense is the new frontier.
He does masterbate three times a day which is above average, I do feel that sometimes effects our sex life as I have a high sex drive and he doesn’t.
I asked this question on another venue with men, some say run, others say they do it too but it’s only for fun, ect…