Post # 1
Me and my fiancé have been together 6 years and he’s been best friends with 2 guys from school for about 18 years. My fiancé doesn’t drink or anything like that, so when they’ve asked him to go out clubbing or whatever, he nevers goes. But they’ve always met to play golf and football instead. A few weeks ago my fiancé decided to go to the pub with them for a few hours but left early.
I went onto Facebook the next day and his two friends were posting snmess comments to each other about “certain people” being under the thumb and were basically making digs at me. (I assume they think I don’t let my fiancé out with them or something – which isn’t true) then they both deleted me off Facebook and have stopped talking to my fiancé.
I don’t like the idea of him being friends with people who bitch about me and say horrible things but on the other hand I don’t want to be accused of coming between them and being seen as a bitch. I need advice on what todo 🙁
Post # 3
I say let it go. What they did is so childish.
Post # 4
There isn’t anything you can do . It’s a boy thing. They think you are stealing him from them and won’t let him out to play anymore.
They have some growing up to do. If your FI wants to talk to them, fine. It’s his deal. There’s nothing that you can say to these barbarians that won’t make it worse.
Post # 5
@debbieotoole: Ohhh hunny I’ve been through this. It’s really hard and it sucks, but what can you do? I am assuming that his friends are both single? There is really nothing you can do. You haven’t done anything wrong and neither has your fiance, so if anything, he should be confronting them about being shitty friends to him. I would just be a support system for your man and try not to be bothered by the situation. I’m sorry you’re going through this. :/ And I agree, they are immature.
Post # 6
How annoying. This is really about your FI and his friends – he should probably talk to them. If they can’t respect you, especially on a public web site, then they can’t be friends anymore.