Post # 1
So my fiancé keep fighting off and on . I want him I change things and he thinks nothing’s wrong with him.hes telling what to do,calling me names ,telling me how to dress, what and when I can eat,telling me I’m fat at a 120 pounds and I’m 5’0 .i had a child so yes I have a belly gosh.and so much moRe.i tell him I wish he made more money bc we still libing at our parents house. He doesn’t want to go to college and get a degree he wants to take over his dad’s tree cutting business which won’t make a lot of money all yeat around.anyway I’m to te point again! This happen a lot when we fight all the time that I’m getting migraines again none stop.i have pain the back if my neck, throwing up, vision blurry, and so on.hes telling me the thinks I’m crazy for thinking that he’s making me sick. But im just so stressed and tired of fightjng and not knowing what I want that it’s making me sick.i old him I’m not going to wear the engagement ring until things are fixed if they do.my hearts telling me to stay with him but my heads telling me to leave.i just I’d kwhat I do anymore. all my friends are telling me to leave but I just can’t I care about him to my lunch .buthes making me so sick. At this moment I’m glad I’m not working or I’d be gettin. Sent home everyday this week over none stop throwing up and can’t concentrate because of my head. And can’t see that we’ll sometimes. Normally when this happens I have to go to the hospital and get a shot in my nwvk to lost the muscles that making me that the migraines . But that so much money I can’t.
Post # 2
Uhm, I would drop that sack of shit in a nano-second. Do yourself, and your child, a favor and lose the additional weight— aka, HIM.
Post # 3
I really feel for you but I also cannot believe that you actually need to ask this question! Your own body is giving you the answer – leave now, right now. There is absolutely nothing more important than one’s health!!
Post # 4
Damiansmum10: In my opinion if a relationship is that hard (and abusive), it isn’t worth it. If the stress is making you sick. It isn’t worth it. A relationship should be like 5% difficult/not getting along and 95% fun and happy times (barring any unforseen illnesses etc. just the every day stuff). If it’s more like 5% fun and 95% awful then get.out.now. Seriously.
Post # 5
Good lord this is difficult to read. The space bar is your friend!
Post # 6
1. Go to the doctor. If you don’t have health insurance, log on to the government website and get some. As a single, unemployed mother under 25, I guarantee you’ll be able to get coverage for virtually nothing. While your relationship sounds dreadful, I doubt it’s giving you migraines to the point of becoming violently ill and vomiting.
2. Take some time away from your fiance while you are healing from whatever ailment you have. While I highly doubt the relationship is the root cause of your ailments, it’s certainly not helping. Use that time to reflect upon the relationship and to decide if this is really something you want to commit to for the rest of your (and your child’s) life. Hopefully you realize what everyone here has told you from day one – this relationship does not have a promising future.
3. Please don’t get married. Please, please, please.
Post # 7
Damiansmum10: I feel a migraine coming on just reading your post. Dump this loser. Don’t marry him.
Post # 8
He also tells me I’m the one doing wrong he’s not.last night I told him out on telling me not to eat again. I got upgrabbed it and ate half the box in front of him. He said i didn’t say that at all. If he calls me a name. He told me I need to call him one bacK. No that’s just wrong to do to call someone names even joking . He told me he wants me to some bitching,complaining ,and to give him more sex. I told him I wouldnt be. If he would stop what he’s doing .i ok’d him he wasn’t. Going to get anything bc if how he’s treating me.and again he thinks he’s not doig anything wrong that I am.theres so much more than all of this though.
Post # 9
- Wedding: March 2014 - A castle!
That sounds like a horrible relationship and not one that I would want to raise my child in. Do you have somewhere else you can go for awhile to take some time apart? Your parents’ house maybe?
Post # 10
He isn’t making you sick, you’re making yourself this way. Pull up your big girl pants and get the hell out of there. If not for yourself, then for your child.
Lean on those folks in your life who are telling you to get out. They are your support system. Listen to them. No one deserves to be treated like this.
Post # 11
FutureDrAtkins: I live with my parents and he lives with his . He’s a lot older than I am I’m 19 and he’s 27 .while my son is with his dad for two weeks this month for summer I’m staying at his parents with him.but I’m to the point where im about to leave
Post # 12
Damiansmum10: I highly doubt you’ll find anyone on here telling you to stay and try to work it out with him. If you’re already thinking of leaving you are on the right track. Get your shit and get out of there and tell him to lose your number.
Post # 13
Leave him. He’s sounds like a grade A Asshole with no ambition. He sounds immature and verbally abusive. For your son’s sake as well as yours you should not marry this man.
Post # 14
- Wedding: August 2013 - Rocky Mountains USA
Ugh girl you are way too young to saddle yourself with such a loser. Call it off! This is emotional / verbal abuse and sounds like a miserable relationship. Seriously, just dump his ass and never talk to him again.
Post # 15
I don’t see what the issue is here. Clearly he’s an a**hole and you know it, so why stay?