My fiancés making me sick

posted 2 years ago in Relationships
Post # 2
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5222 posts
Bee Keeper

Uhm, I would drop that sack of shit in a nano-second. Do yourself, and your child, a favor and lose the additional weight— aka, HIM.

Post # 3
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450 posts
Helper bee

I really feel for you but I also cannot believe that you actually need to ask this question!  Your own body is giving you the answer – leave now, right now.  There is absolutely nothing more important than one’s health!!

Post # 4
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

Damiansmum10:  In my opinion if a relationship is that hard (and abusive), it isn’t worth it. If the stress is making you sick. It isn’t worth it. A relationship should be like 5% difficult/not getting along and 95% fun and happy times (barring any unforseen illnesses etc. just the every day stuff). If it’s more like 5% fun and 95% awful then get.out.now. Seriously.

Post # 5
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442 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: December 2013

Good lord this is difficult to read. The space bar is your friend!

Post # 6
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2014

1. Go to the doctor. If you don’t have health insurance, log on to the government website and get some. As a single, unemployed mother under 25, I guarantee you’ll be able to get coverage for virtually nothing. While your relationship sounds dreadful, I doubt it’s giving you migraines to the point of becoming violently ill and vomiting.

2. Take some time away from your fiance while you are healing from whatever ailment you have. While I highly doubt the relationship is the root cause of your ailments, it’s certainly not helping. Use that time to reflect upon the relationship and to decide if this is really something you want to commit to for the rest of your (and your child’s) life. Hopefully you realize what everyone here has told you from day one – this relationship does not have a promising future.

3. Please don’t get married. Please, please, please.

Post # 7
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

 

Damiansmum10:  I feel a migraine coming on just reading your post. Dump this loser. Don’t marry him.

  • This reply was modified 2 years, 4 months ago by  sillysillybee.
Post # 9
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: March 2014 - A castle!

That sounds like a horrible relationship and not one that I would want to raise my child in. Do you have somewhere else you can go for awhile to take some time apart? Your parents’ house maybe?

Post # 10
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494 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 2014

He isn’t making you sick, you’re making yourself this way. Pull up your big girl pants and get the hell out of there. If not for yourself, then for your child. 

 

Lean on those folks in your life  who are telling you to get out. They are your support system. Listen to them.  No one deserves to be treated like this.  

Post # 12
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

Damiansmum10:  I highly doubt you’ll find anyone on here telling you to stay and try to work it out with him. If you’re already thinking of leaving you are on the right track. Get your shit and get out of there and tell him to lose your number.

Post # 13
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 2014

Leave him. He’s sounds like a grade A Asshole with no ambition. He sounds immature and verbally abusive. For your son’s sake as well as yours you should not marry this man.

Post # 14
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8910 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2013 - Rocky Mountains USA

Ugh girl you are way too young to saddle yourself with such a loser.  Call it off!  This is emotional / verbal abuse and sounds like a miserable relationship.  Seriously, just dump his ass and never talk to him again.

Post # 15
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8821 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper

I don’t see what the issue is here. Clearly he’s an a**hole and you know it, so why stay?

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