(Closed) My Fiances mom passed away this week,,

posted 7 years ago in Family
Post # 3
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Helper bee

I’m very sorry for your and your fi’s loss.

Post # 4
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

I am so so sorry! I hope that your SO, you and his family will find strengh to go threw this time. I love my mon-in-law and I can’t imagine losing her. I absolutely agree that you should do something to commemorate her during the ceremony, maybe have your FI or one of his sisters do a reading from her favorite poem. Or have a picture of her on the seat she should have occupied since she will be there in your thoughts. Once again,I am so sorry for your loss.

Post # 5
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

You’re in my thoughts. My mom passed away in December, so I can empathize with your situation. I would suggest finding some girlfriends or your own family who can support you and having a really good cry without your fiance. He is going through a lot, and I completely understand that you want to be there for him, but it sounds like right now it might be making it harder for him. My FI and I went through a struggle, too, because he wasn’t sure how to handle it all. If you ever need to chat, feel free to PM me. I am sorry for your and your FI’s loss.

Post # 6
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

Oh hun, I am so so sorry.  This must be so tough for the both of you.  And it is okay to cry, it doesn’t mean that you’re not being strong, because you are.  And everyone grieves differently, the best thing you can do is just to be there for each other.  Stay strong and you are in my thoughts and prayers.

Post # 7
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: March 2012

I’m so sorry for your family’s loss. This is absolutely my biggest fear, so I can’t imagine how hard it must be. It’s such a fear that I actually think about what I would do at our wedding if we lost someone close. Unfortunately, the short answer is…I have no idea. I hope you find a lovely and meaningful way of honoring her on your day. She will, as his sister said, be in your hearts and with you at your wedding.

Post # 8
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

I am so sorry. Losing a parent is one of the worst things. I am so sorry.

You HAVE to find it in you to be strong for your FI. Pull from your love for him and your soon to be Mother In Law. He does not need to worry about you right now. Now is the time for you to take care of him.

My brother in law passed away unexpectedly over the holidays. The three of us were super super tight. Everywhere we were he was there. So it was extremely hard on me, he was my brother too. While still letting yourself grieve, you have to put it aside and be strong for him and his family.

I know you can find it in you.

Post # 9
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

So sorry for you loss

Post # 10
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

I am so sorry.  I can’t imagine how hard this is for you now, and how hard it will be on your wedding day.  You’re in my prayers. 

Post # 12
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2010

Oh Im so sorry 🙁

Post # 13
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

Im so sorry… Just know she would probably want you to still get married and have the best wedding day.  Always remember she might not be there in person but she will be watching. and has the best seats in the house:)   My thoughts will be with you.

Post # 14
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

I am so sorry- praying for you and your FI’s family through this time.

Post # 15
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: March 2011

🙁 So sorry.

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